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    this woman who gave birth after seven years. Otherwise          2
    what limit should we set after which we suspect foul play?!
    Moreover, even if a woman becomes pregnant for the first
    time after ten years we will not suspect adultery.

2.	 Menstrual bleeding after the husband’s death – even
    though it is uncommon for a pregnant woman to see
    blood, we should not, chas ve’shalom cast aspersions on
    her presumption of innocence because of this. Shall we
    accuse a Jewish daughter of playing harlot, presuming she
    was promiscuous and disregarding her presumption of
    proper behavior and her presumption of being fit to marry
    a kohen simply because she saw blood during pregnancy?!
    For should we presume she had promiscuous relations we
    thereby disqualify her from marriage to a kohen and such
    a presumption goes against the majority, for most Jewish
    daughters are not promiscuous. There have been cases
    of expectant women having menstrual bleeding during
    the initial months of their pregnancies. Physicians too
    have testified to having seen a number of cases of women
    who had menstrual bleeding up to the eight month and
    although that is uncommon, during the early months of
    pregnancy it is a very common occurrence.

3.	 Although the Taz (Yoreh De’ah 335:5) and the Shach
    (Yoreh De’ah 195:19) both state that a man who is deathly
    ill does not have the strength to achieve an erection, their
    intention is that he cannot have a major erection to the
    point where desire overcomes him and leads him to sin.
    In our case however, where the woman had immersed in a
    mikvah, and it is a mitzvah for him have relations with her
    and the woman also persuaded him to do so, particularly
    since she saw that he was dangerously ill and she was con-
    cerned lest she require chalitzah from the brother-in-law
    who was three years old, necessitating a ten year wait until
    he attains maturity – it is certain that she made every effort
    to find favor with him and he thereby achieved an erection.

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