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Managing Your Style, Avoiding Overuses


                                 Our strengths can also hold us back since almost all of us are prone to stay in our behavioral
                                 comfort zone. It is much easier to “autopilot” than to expend the energy to consciously modify

                                 behavior for more successful outcomes. As a result, we are more likely to emphasize, and
                                 overuse, the behaviors that are the most comfortable to us. Yes, you guessed it – these are
                                 our strengths.

                                 Take a look at some core strengths and examine how they can be overused:






















       Overuse tends to
       occur:
       -  When people are
         experiencing stress or
         deadline pressure
                                 What can you do to avoid overusing strengths?
                                 When we overuse our strengths, essentially we become too much of ourselves.  Under stress,
                                 fatigue, or strong emotions we are more prone to exhibit the negative traits of our behavior instead
       -  When people fail to
         value other styles      of the appropriate behavioral modifications we normally make.
                                 Not surprisingly, everything comes down to making conscious decisions about modifying behavior.
       -  During emotionally     Sometimes we just do not feel like doing it. We have little energy or are not motivated. When this
         charged situations      happens, focus on the big picture. Ask yourself: “What is the cost of not adjusting my behavior?”
                                 This often helps put everything into perspective.
       -  In dysfunctional
         relationships           What about a few techniques to help not to overuse strengths?
                                      First, slow down and be present. You need to be aware how you are behaving.
                                      Aim to keep calm and control your emotions. Remember, when you become emotional
                                        you stop adjusting.
                                      Keep the end goal in mind and focus on how to modify your behavior.

                                 Identifying when you are stressed, emotional, or fatigued is one critical step towards knowing when
                                 you are overusing strengths.

                                 Everything in moderation. Even with our wonderful strengths. Use, but not abuse, them.
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