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•  Lacks curiosity.




                     Brain booster

               Most  people  have  stereotypes—simplified  and  generalized  views  of  people  from  a  particular  group.
               They’re  often  based  on  gender,  race,  religion,  or  geography.  Due  to  social  norms  and  political
               correctness, these tend to lie under the surface and people may not even be aware of them. But they still
               influence  behavior.  The  process  is  automatic  and  very  fast.  In  neuroscientific  terms,  making  the
               connection between a person and a stereotype occurs within 300 milliseconds (less than a typical blink of
               an  eye)  of  encountering  that  person.  Because  the  conscious  control  is  not  there,  responses  can  be
               prejudiced and socially inappropriate. How do you overcome unconscious prejudice? Recognize there are
               more differences within one group than there are between groups. Unlearn the stereotypes. This is called
               disassociation. Consider several people from a specific group. Compare each with what  you think you
               know about that group. Recognize how they are inconsistent with your stereotypical view. Create a new
               categorization not based on social demographics. Focus on how people are similar instead of different to
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               form a new, favorable perception that will override any underlying prejudice.





               Tips to develop Values differences
               1.  Tend to go with your gut reaction? Check your response. Gut reactions are human nature. They
                   can range from appreciation, to tolerance, to avoidance. It’s what we do with these reactions that’s
                   important.  They  can  dictate  the  direction  and  nature  of  our  relationships.  This  direction  can  be
                   unproductive. Examine your reactions to different people. Do you show appreciation by valuing their
                   perspective, talent, or experience? Do you tolerate them because you have to? Or do you avoid them
                   altogether and completely disengage? Identify the characteristics in others that cause you to react
                   this  way—whether  you  appreciate,  tolerate,  or  avoid.  How  are  these  reactions  impacting  your
                   relationships?  Work  to  go  beyond  your  gut  responses.  Make  an  effort  to  seek  out  additional
                   information  about  people  you  may  simply  tolerate  or  perhaps  avoid.  Ask  questions.  Go  beyond
                   tolerating. Tolerating is not good enough to create a productive, harmonious work environment.

               2.  Treat  people  differently?  Examine  your  biases.  Anyone  who  is  living  has  biases  and  makes
                   assumptions. This is part of being human. Biases may be conscious or unconscious. Recognize your
                   biases  and  how  they  impact  workplace  interactions  and  judgments.  Do  you  treat  one  person
                   differently than another? What is it about that person that causes you to treat them differently? Go
                   beyond  your  initial  assumptions.  Ask  questions.  Be  curious.  Surround  yourself  with  people  about
                   whom  you  have  formed  preconceived  notions. Work with  them  on  teams.  Go  out  to  lunch.  Get  to
                   know  them.  Understand  them.  Look  beyond  your  preconceptions.  Find  ways  to  ensure  that  your
                   behavior fully supports all of those around you, not just those you are most comfortable with.


               3.  Tunnel vision? Seek out different perspectives. It’s easy to develop a one-track mind when you’re
                   working  on  a  challenging  project  with  tight  deadlines.  You  probably  go  full  steam  ahead  toward
                   successful completion. You likely seek out your usual go-to people who have helped you in the past
                   and whom you trust. That’s the way you’ve always done it. This can be limiting. You’re relying on the
                   same people, same perspectives, same experience. It excludes others and doesn’t give them exciting
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