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eating cod oil: burdensome, unpleasant   One definition of the word Pesach   If our Seder table not only features
      and requiring something enticing to   is “to grasp”. On Seder night we feel   plastic frogs and preschool projects
      motivate us to comply. Why should we   Hashem holding us tightly just as he   but also an authentic sense of personal
      embrace an observant life of Torah and   held on to and protected each Jewish   connection  with  Hashem,  it  can
      mitzvot? Rewards and incentives – even   home in Egypt. This closeness, the way   fulfill its primary purpose of passing
      the reward of olam haba – are a shallow   we can feel the Divine Presence within   our greatest gift and source of joy
      answer to this question and can leave   us at our Seder table, brings us so much   – our spiritual heritage – to future
      us feeling empty.                joy that we break out in song (Hallel).   generations.
                                       The words of the haggadah help us
      Additionally, what happens when   progress in our personal journey.   Why  do  we celebrate the  Seder?
      the “spoonful of sugar” we offer as   We move from feeling enslaved to   Because the  Seder brings together
      a reward for mitzvot is less appealing                            so many aspects of Jewish life  all
      than the alluring pleasures of the   the limitations of the physical world   centered around the greatest reward
                                       to the freedom of connection with
      modern, secular world? When rewards   transcendence: our relationship with   of all: a life of connection with Hashem
      and incentives are the primary   Hashem.                          Himself.
      motivations for living a Torah life,
      we risk losing people who find the   Incentives are a wonderful way to   Rabbi Reuven Brand is the Rosh Kollel of the
      incentives of the broader world more   create moments of fun and excitement   YU Torah MiTzion Kollel, a community Torah
      enticing than our own. Will we lose   within Judaism on Pesach and   institution with a vibrant Beit Midrash, array
      these people from Torah life entirely?  throughout the year. But the primary   of creative learning opportunities, unique
                                       education we provide our children   women’s initiative and diverse outreach
      Although incentives surely have a place   is through modeling a joyous Torah   programming. He lives in Skokie, Illinois
      in our overall religious experience,   life of connection with Hashem. If   with his wife, Nechama, and their five
      there is a far more compelling reason                             children.
      to make a Seder, observe Pesach and   our children see us truly enjoying
                                       our Torah lives and our relationship
      live the life of an engaged and inspired
      Torah Jew – a reason found in the Seder   with Hashem, it can inspire them.
      itself.
      Authentic happiness in life can only be
      achieved, appreciated and felt when
      we live a deeply spiritual existence.
      The core message of the  Seder is
      that each of us lives in an ongoing
      relationship with Hashem, the
      Creative Force of the universe. Though
      we appreciate periodic moments of
      fun and excitement, it is our daily
      awareness of Hashem’s presence
      with us in the everyday details of life
      that fills our lives with meaning and
      happiness.
      Our emunah, our spiritual awareness, is
      the source of our self-worth and inner
      fulfillment. It nourishes our confidence
      and supports us during times of
      loneliness and disappointment. Our
      mitzvot connect us with Hashem, the
      Source of life, which is why the true
      reward for a mitzvah is another mitzvah
      – another opportunity to connect with
      the deepest part of ourselves.
















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