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FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS




         Memorial or Tribute Service
         At a memorial or tribute service, a casket or   • Will your service adhere to the traditions of
         urn is usually not present. Otherwise similar   your faith or culture?
         to a funeral or visitation, a memorial service
         gives family and friends a time to come    • Do you want a eulogy, and who should
         together in your memory and celebrate your   deliver it?
         life.
                                                    • Would you like an open or closed casket?
          Graveside Service                         • What music should be played?

          s its name implies, a graveside service may
          be held at the grave site just prior to burial of   • What readings would you like to have?
          a casket or urn, and usually consists of final
          remarks, prayers or memories. The service   • Is there a special poem you’d like shared
          may occur after or in place of a funeral   with guests?
          service.
                                                    • Are there any special photographs or other
          There’s no one right way to plan a funeral   memorabilia you would like to be displayed?
          service, we believe that each funeral should
          be as unique and memorable as the life it   • Should the decor reflect a particular hobby
          honors.                                   or interest of yours, such as fishing, garden-
                                                    ing or music?
          When planning your own funeral service in
          advance, think about the way you want to be   • Is there a particular emblem or engraving
          remembered. Perhaps you’d like a tradition-  you want on your headstone or marker?
          al funeral aligned with certain religious or
          ethnic customs. Or, a celebration focusing on   • Should there be refreshments served or a
          great memories made with family and friends   more elaborate party held after the service?
          may be your preference. Maybe it’s a combi-
          nation of both. You can have one service, or   Cemetry Property
          several, to honor your life.
                                                    A common misconception that people have
          Regardless of the service or services you   when they purchase the right of interment in
          choose to include in your funeral plan, you   a cemetery is that they have purchased the
          can personalize them in almost any way    land itself, when in fact what they have really
          imaginable. For example, just consider the   purchased is the right to be interred (also
          following questions:                      referred to as buried, entombed, enniched
                                                    or placed) on or in that particular piece of
          • Where should your funeral be held? At a   property.
          place of worship or the funeral home?

          • Who should officiate the service?




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