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6. Not feeling appreciated

In close, committed relationships, much of what you do is at least partially

for the benefit of your partner.

Feeling like your actions are unreciprocated or unappreciated can often

precede an argument.

Show your appreciation for the little things your partner do, they won’t

easily forget it. When he does something for you, let him know exactly

what he has just done.

Instead of saying “Thank you”, when he just pick up your clothes from the

drycleaner, say something like – “Thank you very much for taking the time

out of your busy schedule to help me pick up my clothes from the

drycleaner. You’re the best”.

7. Religion

In some relationship, religion doesn’t become a

major issue. But in others, it can escalate into

serious problems.

Even within the same religion, spouses can argue about different sects or

rituals to be followed, so the problem magnifies when both are from

different religions altogether!

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