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leave the toilet seat up, get too logical, forget something you’ve said a
thousand times, that you love them anyways.
Because inside every man is a boy who forgets he’s a man sometimes. And
every boy gets into things, not because he’s bad but because he’s got a
curious mind and a short attention span.
Unconditional support from you is what will snap us out of our boyish
behavior and inject them with a desire to be a stronger man. Only when
you accept them as they are, who they are, will they want to become
someone better.
3. Not to be left in the dark
So many women don’t tell their men how they feel because they don’t
want to rock the boat. Or they’re afraid.
The truth is when you don’t express yourself, you leave men in the dark.
They don’t really know the truth of you. You are prepackaging and
presenting parts of your life instead of doing your whole life with them.
Couples grow and get stronger overcoming adversity, not by doing life
separately. Know that every time you hold things in, you are building walls
inside the sacred space of the relationship.
No, they don’t want you to verbally vomit on them.
But believe it or not, they really do want to know
who you truly are.
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