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4. Blinders sex
There’s sex. Then there’s blinders sex, the kind of sex that gives you
blinders, keeps your eyes forward and intentions straight when you’re out
in the world.
Let’s face it. Men are going to look. They’re like squirrels. They get
distracted by shiny things. But there’s a difference between noticing and
wanting.
Blinders sex gets men to say, “Yeah, she may be
pretty but I would never trade in what I have for
anything else.”
Blinders sex isn’t just good sex. It’s a unique connection with someone
that makes you fantasize about them in the shower, call in sick so you can
lie in bed all day making love and eating. It produces glue that cannot
happen with anyone else.
5. The C-word
Communication. Without it, relationships are built
on sand.
Men want you to communicate directly. They don’t get clues. They need
things spelled out. And they understand that if you have to spell it out, it’s
not the same.
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