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The things you should not do
under any circumstances:
1. Do not tell the man that you are hurt, do not admonish him for the fact
that he makes you waste time in vain and fools you. You decided to be
with him – it is only your choice. Take responsibility for your own actions.
2. You refer him to a psychologist to discuss his fear of commitment. Men
are able to make commitments well, if they love their women, and women
follow the ‘rules’ (which we are telling right now).
But if the woman is chasing a man herself, if she is too available, if a man
is not in love, then a real phobia immediately arises. Men say: ‘I find it hard
to reconcile with the concept of marriage’ - or talk about the divorce
statistics.
3. Do not allow a man to convince you that the marriage is not important
– ‘it's just a simple document’, it is just important to be together.
If he does not want to get married, then he does not love you. Or his love
is not what you need. If a man does not want to get married, then he still
wants to find someone else!
4. Do not allow a man to convince you that, because he has already been
married, he cannot marry again, you have to give him time to recover from
his ex-wife.
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