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The things you should not do



                           under any circumstances:



               1. Do not tell the man that you are hurt, do not admonish him for the fact

               that he makes you waste time in vain and fools you. You decided to be

               with him – it is only your choice. Take responsibility for your own actions.






               2. You refer him to a psychologist to discuss his fear of commitment. Men

               are able to make commitments well, if they love their women, and women

               follow the ‘rules’ (which we are telling right now).


               But if the woman is chasing a man herself, if she is too available, if a man


               is not in love, then a real phobia immediately arises. Men say: ‘I find it hard

               to  reconcile  with  the  concept  of  marriage’  -  or  talk  about  the  divorce

               statistics.


               3. Do not allow a man to convince you that the marriage is not important


               – ‘it's just a simple document’, it is just important to be together.


               If he does not want to get married, then he does not love you. Or his love

               is not what you need. If a man does not want to get married, then he still


               wants to find someone else!





               4. Do not allow a man to convince you that, because he has already been

               married, he cannot marry again, you have to give him time to recover from

               his ex-wife.







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