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5. Do not allow a man, with whom you have been dating for a long time,

to persuade you to wait until everything ‘calms down’ at work, financial

problems will be solved or something else will happen.

This is an unacceptable reason. Problems at work and the lack of money

will always be present. Nothing should stop a man to marry you, if he

wants to.

Reality Check

In general, to get a man to marry you in a reasonable time, you should

absolutely refuse to live with him until the engagement and wedding and

continue to meet him not more than three times a week, though by this

time you are already passionately want to be together all the time.

If it happens so, that a man does not want to do the first step, but does

not allow doing it for him.

The task of the intelligent woman is to lead him to

‘the right way’. It will seem that the decision about

marriage was taken by a man.

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