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a story about the person that everyone                   an obituary at no cost to the family. A death
         can relate to. Keep it appropriate, there                notice, in contrast is a means by which
         will be children and the elderly there who               the family uses the newspaper to inform
         may not share the same sense of humor.                   relatives and friends of the passing. The
         Laughter is truly the best medicine, and                 family  is charged for  the death notice,
         some well-placed humor will help people                  and the timing of the print is usually the
         cope, and will bring back fond memories                  day before the planned services begin.
         of the deceased.                                         The death notice will contain the name of
                                                                  the deceased, age, where they are from,
         Don’t be afraid to show emotion.                         date of passing, relations, service date,
         Funerals are an extremely emotional                      time and location, final disposition and if
         event, nobody expects you not to shed                    charitable donations are requested.
         a few tears. However, if you feel that you
         will be too strongly overcome by your                    Remember, most newspapers charge for
         emotions, have a back-up plan in place                   death notices, and they are charged by
         where someone you trust can deliver the                  the line. Each line contains approximately
         eulogy for you. Give them a copy well                    four words. The funeral director will assist
         in advance if you feel this could be an                  you in creating the correct format and
         issue.                                                   editing in order to minimize charges.


         Have a glass of water as well as tissues                 Writing an obituary is a difficult and
         handy.                                                   emotional task. First, you will need to
                                                                  gather information from family and friends

         Obituaries and Death                                     of the deceased about their childhood,
                                                                  education, career and hobbies and
         Notices                                                  interests. Also, speak to the funeral home
                                                                  to receive any important information on
         Occasionally a newspaper will consider                   the date, time and location of any funeral
         the passing of a loved one as newsworthy.                service, or other funeral related events.
         In this situation, the newspaper will print



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