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Curaçao’s Little League was founded in 1972. Liga Pariba Baseball
It kept developing while, at the same time, the
number of teams kept increasing, which is the
reason why it was divided between two associa-
tions, Pabou and Pariba.

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IN tShPeOT LIGHT

Adziënne Garcia Meet the parents: What to do when

“The combination of managing and being creative is what I love” PHHWLQJSRWHQWLDOLQODZVIRUWKHÀUVWWLPH

It’s not unusual that growing up between Europe and the Caribbean brings Meeting your
out the best in people. The mix of Caribbean out-of-of-the-box thinking and significant other’s
international city life in Holland can be very inspirational for young talents. family for the first time
is one of the most
daunting moments in
the relationship.

By Elisa Koek and being creative is what I love.” By Amber Kelleher Andrews

Adziënne Garcia is a perfect example of this: the fact that One of Adziënne’s dreams is to become the fashion guru of Though it seems like this should be a sim- to bring a gift when meeting your partner’s common phrase - “If someone is nice to
she was born in Curaçao, but raised in both Curaçao and Curaçao, the person who knows all the ins and outs about ple enough thing, you would be surprised family at their home, but getting the gift you but rude to the waiter, they are not a
Holland contributed to making her an unusually talented and trends and who’s able to advise the community. However, at the number of people who fail this impor- right takes research. For example, a bottle nice person.” This is especially applicable
exceptional designer. to get there, the fashion industry in Curaçao needs a boost. tant test of a relationship’s strength. The of wine is a great gift, except for when his when it comes to other members of the
“We’ve got retailers who are just selling clothes, but aren’t way in which you behave when meeting GDGLVDUHFRYHULQJDOFRKROLF$QGÀRZHUV family, even non-human members. Gener-
Adziënne has always had a passion for fashion. When she fashion-conscious. By combining quality with trends, market- SRWHQWLDOIXWXUHLQODZVIRUWKH¿UVWWLPHQRW are lovely unless her mom is allergic to ally avoid sensitive topics, such as religion
was little she already used her mom’s clothes and acces- ing retailers can even create trends themselves. I would love only sets the precedent for your relation- them. Taking in background information is and politics.
sories to entertain herself. When she was 23 she became to see this happen.” ship with partner’s parents, but also gives especially important if your SO’s family is
regional manager for a big bag brand and her passion took a your partner a stronger understanding of from a different culture. Learn customary Finally, show a generous amount of re-
more serious turn. “I loved working in the fashion industry and For the time being, Adziënne is combining her life in Curaçao your maturity level and potential for a last- manners and greetings and show respect spect toward your date and his family.
noticed I also liked having the responsibility. Guiding projects with other part of the world, again. She visited the Fashion ing relationship. If he/she does not have for your mate’s heritage. Be extra cautious Treat him/her like they are the most impor-
and managing everything suited me pretty well.” Week in New York twice, and got to know much more about the blessing of their family to pursue a life when it comes to addressing members of tant being in your life. Never ever shame
fashion and the industry. “Of course I would love to be a part with you, chances are they won’t remain the household. Ask how the person would them or embarrass them in front of their
Knowing that fashion was really what she wanted, Adziënne of that. New York is every designer’s dream. However, divid- in the relationship. Remember, most par- like to be addressed before addressing family members. This is an important rule
enrolled at the Vogue Academy. This step opened a whole ing my time between Curaçao and New York would really be HQWV DUH QRW ORRNLQJ WR ¿QG IDXOW ZLWK \RX WKHPDSROLWHZD\RIGRLQJWKLVLVE\¿UVW to follow at all times - not just on special
new world. She worked very hard and studied even harder the best!” IRUWKHVDNHRI¿QGLQJIDXOW0RVWMXVWZDQW addressing them as Mr. or Mrs. (last name occasions. People want to be built up by
and this bore fruit. “Many doors opened and big brands like to make sure that their son/daughter is in here) and allow them to give you an alter- their partner - not brought down.
G-Star and Diesel approached me to work with them. It was a healthy relationship with a sane, stable native if they so desire it.
amazing to actually turn my ideas into reality.” and respectful mate. Here are some tips to Lastly, be yourself - or at least be a polite
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Although Adziënne had many things going for her, the pres- other’s family members a positive one: swear or tell ill-humored jokes or off -col- enjoy the time spent with your honey and
sure of her job and study got too big. She got burned-out. ored stories. Always say “please” and his folks. You may be nervous, but that is
“The moment I heard I had a burn-out, it felt like my whole First, take this occasion seriously. Like it or “thank you.” Compliment when there is to be expected. Brushing up on your man-
world was collapsing. I saw my future disappear in front of not, you will be judged. Take pride in your occasion for it, but don’t be disingenu- ners and being a pleasant guest are the
me.” Luckily, nothing could be further from the truth. To get attire. Guys, leave the wrinkled tattered ous about it. One of the easiest ways to best ways to win over your potential in-
back to her old self, Adziënne decided to visit her mother in jeans and concert t-shirts at home and remain polite for the entirety of the visit is laws and show your mate that you really
Curaçao for a while. It turned out the island had many things clean up your appearance. Ladies, you are to avoid consuming alcohol, as impaired care about him/her and their family.
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Adziënne started a styling business, and although she had a no-no. The same is true for jeggings, re- to everyone, including the awful little dog Article Source: http://EzineArticles.
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was all very instructive, and I realized designing is much big- does. Ask questions before hand so that
ger than I thought. I designed events, brochures, but also you can plan accordingly. It is customary
parts of movies and photos. The combination of managing