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your plate into the dishwasher.” Or, er children, long speeches encourage
͞dŚĞ ůĂƵŶĚƌLJ ŝƐ ŽŶ ƚŚĞ ŇŽŽƌ ŽĨ ƚŚĞ ďĂƚŚ- them to tune out and ignore anything
ƌŽŽŵ͕͟ ŝŶƐƚĞĂĚ ŽĨ ͞ƚĂŬĞ LJŽƵƌ ĐůŽƚŚŝŶŐ ŽĨ ǁŽƌƚŚ ƚŚĂƚ LJŽƵ ŵŝŐŚƚ ďĞ ƐĂLJŝŶŐ͘
to the hamper.” This encourages your
ĐŚŝůĚ ƚŽ ĂĐƚ ŽŶ ŚŝƐ ŽǁŶ ĂŶĚ ŶŽƚ ĨĞĞů Praise
Say it with a word͘ /Ĩ LJŽƵƌ ĐŚŝůĚ ŶĞĞĚƐ
a reminder about something to do, Once you are listening to your child so
simply remind him, “the plate” or “the that he can talk, and your child is also
laundry.” Try to make it as short as pos- ĐŽŽƉĞƌĂƟŶŐ͕ ƚŚĞŶ ŝƚ͛Ɛ ƟŵĞ ƚŽ ŐŝǀĞ ƐŽŵĞ
sible so you don’t end up nagging, and compliments! When you praise your
he doesn’t end up tuning you out. child, be sure to describe what you see –
tell him how great the table looks with-
DON’Ts ŽƵƚ ƚŚĞ ĚŝƌƚLJ ĚŝƐŚĞƐ ŽŶ ŝƚ͘ /Ŷ ĂĚĚŝƟŽŶ͕
Don’t blame. When you say something ůĞƚ Śŝŵ ŬŶŽǁ ŚŽǁ LJŽƵ ĨĞĞů͘ zŽƵ ĐĂŶ ƐĂLJ
ůŝŬĞ͕ ͞zŽƵ ƐƉŝůůĞĚ ƚŚĞ ŵŝůŬ ĂŐĂŝŶ͘ tŚLJ ĚŽ ƐŽŵĞƚŚŝŶŐ ůŝŬĞ͕ ͞/ƚ ŵĂŬĞƐ ŵĞ ĨĞĞů ŐƌĞĂƚ
you always do that?” you are shaming ƚŚĂƚ LJŽƵ ĐůĞĂƌĞĚ Žī ƚŚĞ ƚĂďůĞ͘͟ ŶĚ ůĂƐƚ-
ƚŚĞ ĐŚŝůĚ ŝŶƚŽ ĨĞĞůŝŶŐ ůŝŬĞ ŚĞ ŚĂƐ ĚŽŶĞ ly, you can sum up your child’s good
ƐŽŵĞƚŚŝŶŐ ǁƌŽŶŐ ĂŶĚ ŝƚ ǁŽŶ͛ƚ ŵĂƩĞƌ ďĞŚĂǀŝŽƌ ǁŝƚŚ Ă ĚĞƐĐƌŝƉƚŽƌ͘ ^ĂLJ ƐŽŵĞ-
ŝĨ ŚĞ ĐŚĂŶŐĞƐ ƚŚĂƚ ĂĐƟŽŶ͕ ĞǀĞŶ ĨŽƌ ƚŚĞ ƚŚŝŶŐ ůŝŬĞ͕ ͞dŚĂƚ͛Ɛ ǁŚĂƚ / ĐĂůů ŶĞĂƚ͊͟ /Ĩ ǁĞ
ĨƵƚƵƌĞ͘ work on consistently praising our child’s
Bulletin
Don’t name-call. Telling your child, ďĞŚĂǀŝŽƌ͕ ŚĞ ǁŝůů ďĞ ŵŽƌĞ ůŝŬĞůLJ ƚŽ ĐŽ-
͞zŽƵ ĂƌĞ ƐŽ ůŽƵĚ͘ / ĐĂŶ͛ƚ ŚĞĂƌ ŵLJƐĞůĨ ŽƉĞƌĂƚĞ ŝŶ ƚŚĞ ĨƵƚƵƌĞ͘ WůƵƐ͕ LJŽƵ ǁŝůů ďĞ
ƚŚŝŶŬ ǁŝƚŚ LJŽƵƌ ŵŝĐƌŽƉŚŽŶĞ ŽĨ Ă ǀŽŝĐĞ͟ ďƵŝůĚŝŶŐ Ă ƐƚƌŽŶŐ ƌĞůĂƟŽŶƐŚŝƉ ŝŶ ǁŚŝĐŚ
ŐŝǀĞƐ LJŽƵƌ ĐŚŝůĚ Ă ůĂďĞů ƚŚĂƚ ŚĞ ĨĞĞůƐ ŚĞ LJŽƵ ĐĂŶ ƐƉĞĂŬ ƚŽ ĞĂĐŚ ŽƚŚĞƌ ƌĞƐƉĞĐƞƵůůLJ
ĐĂŶŶŽƚ ĞƐĐĂƉĞ͘ tŚLJ ƚƌLJ ƚŽ ĐŽŽƉĞƌĂƚĞ ŝĨ and openly.
ŚĞ͛Ɛ ĂůǁĂLJƐ ŐŽŝŶŐ ƚŽ ďĞ ͞ůŽƵĚ͟ ĂŶĚ ŚĂǀĞ
Ă ͞ŵŝĐƌŽƉŚŽŶĞ ŽĨ Ă ǀŽŝĐĞ͍͟
Don’t lecture. ƐƉĞĐŝĂůůLJ ĨŽƌ LJŽƵŶŐ-
Ŷ ĂĐĐůĂŝŵĞĚ ĞĚƵĐĂƚŽƌ ĂŶĚ ĞĚƵĐĂƟŽŶ ĐŽŶƐƵůƚĂŶƚ͕ DƌƐ͘ ZŝŅĂ ^ĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚ ŚĂƐ ƐĞƌǀĞĚ
ƚŚĞ :ĞǁŝƐŚ ĐŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJ ĨŽƌ ĐůŽƐĞ ƚŽ ƚŚŝƌƚLJ LJĞĂƌƐ͘ ^ŚĞ ĨŽƵŶĚĞĚ ĂŶĚ ĚŝƌĞĐƚƐ ƚŚĞ ǁŝĚĞůLJ
ĂĐĐůĂŝŵĞĚ ĞĚƵĐĂƟŽŶĂů ƉƌŽŐƌĂŵ͕ ^K^͕ ƐĞƌǀŝĐŝŶŐ Ăůů ŐƌĂĚĞ ůĞǀĞůƐ ŝŶ ƐĞĐƵůĂƌ ĂƐ ǁĞůů ĂƐ
,ĞďƌĞǁ ƐƚƵĚŝĞƐ͘ ŬƌŝĂŚ ĂŶĚ ƌĞĂĚŝŶŐ ƐƉĞĐŝĂůŝƐƚ͕ ƐŚĞ ŚĂƐ ŐŝǀĞŶ ĚLJŶĂŵŝĐ ǁŽƌŬƐŚŽƉƐ
ĂŶĚ ŚĂƐ ƐĞƚ ƵƉ ƌĞĂĚŝŶŐ ůĂďƐ ŝŶ ŵĂŶLJ ƐĐŚŽŽůƐ͘ /Ŷ ĂĚĚŝƟŽŶ͕ ƐŚĞ ŽīĞƌƐ ĞǀĂůƵĂƟŽŶƐ
'͘ ͘ ͘ ƉƌĞƉĂƌĂƟŽŶ͕͕ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ ƚƌĂŝŶŝŶŐ ĂŶĚ ƐŚŝĚĚƵĐŚ ĐŽĂĐŚŝŶŐ͕ ĨŽĐƵƐŝŶŐ ŽŶ ďƵŝůĚ-
ŝŶŐ ƐĞůĨͲĞƐƚĞĞŵ ĂŶĚ ƐĞůĨͲĂǁĂƌĞŶĞƐƐ͘ ^ŚĞ ĐĂŶ ďĞ ƌĞĂĐŚĞĚ Ăƚ ϳϭϴͲϯϴϮͲϱϰϯϳ Žƌ Ăƚ ƌŝŅĂ-
ƐĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚΛŐŵĂŝů͘ĐŽŵ ͘ zŽƵ ĐĂŶ ǀŝĞǁ ƚŚĞ ǁĞď Ăƚ ƌŝŅĂƐĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚƐŽƐ͘ĐŽŵ͘
ZĞŐŝƐƚĞƌ ŶŽǁ ĨŽƌ Ă DŝŶĚƐĞƚƐ ĂŶĚ , ǁŽƌŬƐŚŽƉ ďLJ ƌ͘ ZŽďĞƌƚ ƌŽŽŬƐ ŽŶ
EŽǀĞŵďĞƌ ϭϯ͕ ϮϬϭϴ͘ WůĞĂƐĞ ĐĂůů DƌƐ͘ ^ĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚ Ăƚ ϳϭϴͲϯϴϮͲϱϰϯϳ ĨŽƌ ŵŽƌĞ ŝŶĨŽ͘
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