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10           The Delta Kappa Gamma Bulletin: International Journal for Professional Educators



                     Bullied students reported that bullying occurred in the following places: the hallway or
                     stairwell at school (42%), inside the classroom (34%), in the cafeteria (22%), outside on
                     school grounds (19%), on the school bus (10%), and in the bathroom or locker room (9%;
                     National Center for Educational Statistics, 2016).
                         Forty-three percent of bullied students reported notifying an adult at school about the
                     incident. Students who reported higher rates of bullying victimization were more likely to report
                     the bullying. More than half of bullying situations (57%) stopped when a peer intervened on
                     behalf of the student being bullied (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2016).
                        In 2015, the Center for Disease Control released the following information on the
                     effects of bullying. Students who experienced bullying were at increased risk for poor
                     school adjustment, sleep difficulties, anxiety, and depression. Students who were both
                     targets of bullying and who engaged in bullying behavior were at greater risk for both
                     mental health and behavior problems than students who only bullied or were only bullied
                     (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2016).


                     Potential Solutions
                        Preventing bullying requires action on the part of all stakeholders. The following are
                     several possible avenues to a solution.
                        Olweus program. One of the foremost anti-bullying programs for use in educational
                     settings was developed by Dr. Dan Olweus, a psychology professor from Norway. Designed
                     for student in Grades 3 through 10, the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program involves
                     four steps:
                        1.  Increase awareness and knowledge of problems related to bullying as well as dispel
                            a number of myths about the causes of bullying.
                        2.  Get teachers and parents actively involved.
                        3.  Develop clear rules against bullying. The following rules have proven to be very
                            useful: We will not bully other students. We will try to help students who are bullied.
                            We will make it a point to include students who become easily left out. When we
                            know somebody is being bullied we will tell a teacher and an adult at home.
                        4.  Provide support and effective protection to the victim. (2001)
                        Roles for Parents. SAMHSA (2004) provided the following common-sense roles for
                     parents that are still pertinent today:
                        1.  Let your child feel he/she is important. Children have a great need to feel they are
                            important to their parents. Children grow on love and challenges.
                        2.  Laugh with and not at your child. Children are proud and can be deeply hurt when
                            they feel you are making fun of them. Laugh with your child; humor is positive.
                        3.  Do not give in to your child to avoid conflict. Children feel more secure when they
                            have limits set for them in their everyday life, but they often cannot refrain from
                            testing their limits.
                        4.  Keep the agreements you make with your children. Children feel helpless if you
                            break agreements without good reason. If your child isn’t sure whether he or she
                            can rely on you, whom can he or she rely on? Remember that what you do today
                            contributes to forming the future.
                        5.  Praise your child frequently. Encouragement and kind words motivate a child
                            to cooperate. Positive support strengthens the child’s self-image and creates an
                            enthusiastic spirit. When new challenges arise, you child will be able to meet them
                            confidently.
                        6.  Do not frighten your child unnecessarily. Sometimes you may need to scare your
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