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By. Dr. John DeGarmo

The holiday season; a time for joy, a time for
happiness. Christmas, Hanukkah, New Years,
Kwanzaa; a time of giving and of family. It is a
time of wonder and excitement for millions of
children across the nation, and across the globe.
It is a time when memories are made, and love is
shared.
Yet, for so many children in the foster
care system, it is anything but a time of joy, a
time of excitement. Indeed, it is just the
opposite. ‘Tis the season? Not for the roughly
half a million children in foster care in the
United States. It is often a time of great sadness
and despair. For these children, it is a reminder
other times of the year. This might also include
of so much anxiety and trauma in their young Disclosure Radio/TV Network
helping out school supplies at the beginning of
lives. Many foster children are faced with the Dream Maker Media
the school year, birthdays, paying for school
realization that they will not be “home for the Euro Radio/TV Network
field trips and summer camps, and other
holidays,” so to speak, with their biological Hamilton TV Network
activities that are special to the child. Indeed,
family members. It is a reminder that they are Haunted Kitchens TV Show
many foster parents simply cannot afford to
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Do you remember waking up as a child child; opportunities that help the child escape Investigations 36;
on Christmas morning? If you were like me, IPBN Radio/TV Network
from their trauma, and opportunities to heal
you couldn’t wait to get your parents up, and IPBN Music Network
from their suffering. When we all come
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together to help the child in foster care in such a
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holiday cheer to a child in need, we are changing
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After all, isn’t that what this time of year
very different experience. When they wake up is all about? Open Mic Radio Network
Christmas morning, and are surrounded by Paranormal Blues
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DeGarmo has been a foster parent for 14 years,
can be a very difficult time for them, indeed. To Para Science Radio/TV
now, and he and his wife have had over 50
be sure, it is a day that is a stark reminder to RAM Media
children come through their home. He is the
these children that they are not with their own REL-MAR Publishing
director of The Foster Care Institute, a
family. It is during the holidays when families RNN Radio/TV
consultant to legal firms and foster care
are supposed to be together, yet these children in Sirius Digital Broadcast Network
agencies, as well as a speaker and trainer on
care are not. They are not with their families, many topics about the foster care system Dr. TalkStar Radio Network
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the author of several foster care books, including
feelings of sadness and grief, as he is separated The ‘X’ Zone Store
the The Foster Parenting Manual, and writes for
from his own family during this time of family The Ultimate Media Guide
several publications, including Foster Focus
celebration. After all, he is separated from his Too Politically Correct Radio Show
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drjohndegarmo@gmail, through his Facebook
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page, Dr. John DeGarmo, or at The Foster Care
want to go home, to live with their family Institute. WIKI Hamilton
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may have suffered from them, and despite all MERRY CHRISTMAS WTP Media
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simply revel in being a child. Our “foster Canada
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“adopt” a child during the holiday season, or (800) 610-7035