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78                     Helping The Homeless At Christmas





              What kind of help do

          homeless people most need

                     at Christmas?



          Christmas consumerism can be lovely when
          kept in its place. We are not Grinches here. Still,
          if you’re yearning to do something different this
          year, one option is to look at some different
          ways to help the homeless.
                 Christmas is an emotional time where
          people often have high expectations of
          happiness. Even if you don’t have much time,
          money or independence, you can still help the
          homeless at Christmas in non-judgemental ways
          that make a difference.
                 The best way to start is to search online
          for an organised homeless shelter or soup
          kitchen in your area, and see what sort of help
          they’re looking for over the Christmas period.
          They work with the homeless all the time, and
          have a concrete plan in place for ways to support
          those on the streets.
                                                         ways they know best.                            use it, they may feel a need for it – and might not
          Donate money to food banks                             Tell all your friends and ask them to help be inclined to start using it just because they
                 Some supermarkets offer to pass your    fill your donation box.                         were given one. Homeless people may also have
          donated food onto food banks who help feed the         Then get someone with a car who loves   different dietary restrictions (like diabetes, or
          homeless. Of course, it’s great if you donate to  you to deliver the donations to the homeless Crohn’s) that you may not be aware of, same as
          them. But it’s worth knowing that food banks   shelter.                                        anyone else.
          can already buy from supermarkets at wholesale         If you’re in a position to be able to do the   If in doubt, get in touch with a homeless
          prices.                                        above, you could really help the homeless this shelter.
                 Why not donate your money to food       Christmas.
          banks directly? This way, they can get the food                                                Presents for pets?
          they most need. If you prefer to donate food,  Volunteering with homeless shelters                    A pet is a constant source of company for
          food bank websites are likely to have a wishlist.
                                                                 Shelters nearly always need people to   anyone who’s homeless. Buy a marrow or dog
                 Food banks help all kinds of people and
                                                         help out with the cooking and serving of        treat or two, and see if you can find a spare clean
          they always struggle to meet demand. When you
                                                         Christmas dinner, and also with cleaning up.    blanket.  Wrap the blanket and dog treat tidily
          donate to a food bank, you can REALLY make a
                                                         Loved ones might not be keen on your doing      with a festive ribbon, put it in a bag, then
          difference.
                                                         this, because they’re looking forward to        wonder around until you find a homeless person
                                                         spending time with you.  That’s fair enough.    with a dog. Offer them your present, be your
          Donate to homeless shelters                    Then again, Christmas is a long day. Your family own sweet self, and you’ll be virtually
                 Shelters might well be looking for      might be willing for you and a friend to spend a  guaranteed to have made their day (and their
          donations of:                                  couple of hours helping out with the cooking at  beloved canine companion’s day, too).
           •  Clothing – socks, blankets, warm clothes,  a homeless shelter.  Alternatively, you could
             hats, toiletries and footwear               consider putting in a couple of hours of        Money?
           •  Useful food like basic canned goods        volunteer work on the days surrounding                 As with blessing bags, this is an area of
           •  Entertainment – from second-hand books to  Christmas Day, and save that day for yourself   heated discussion. SERIOUSLY, though. It’s not
             toys for kids (and although second-hand toys  and loved ones.                               your place to judge what the money will be
             are thoughtful, every kid likes something
                                                                                                         spent on.
             new that has only ever belonged to them)    Giving presents and care packages
           •  Christmas gifts (think luxuries like biscuits,                                                    Money is light, easy to carry and
                                                                 Obviously, you want to respect personal  relatively easy to hide on your person. Money
             cakes, chocolates, sweets and board games)
                                                         space and not give presents to an individual    gives someone who’s homeless the power and
          Donations are not only used by the shelter but
                                                         where they’re not wanted.                       independence to make their own decisions about
          are also given out on the door to those who are
                                                                                                         what they want.  You can’t possibly know a
          unfortunate enough to be turned away due to no
                                                         To give or not to give a Blessing Bag?          person on the streets better than they know
          spare beds.
                                                                 There’s a lot of conflict around how    themselves. Money can be turned into warm
                                                         appropriate care packages or ‘blessing bags’ drinks, tampons or new shoes. It can be used to
          Raising money to help the homeless             might really be.  Typically, these packages get a bed at a  shelter, or to top up minutes on a
                 Sure, there’s not much time until       contain items related to food and hygiene, pay-as-you-go phone.
          college/school/work finishes for the holidays.  including toothpaste, toothbrushes, deoderant,        Gifts are always well-meant. Empathy
          But it really doesn’t take long to set up a    lip balm and all the things you might imagine towards someone right there in front of you –
          donation day.                                  someone to need if they’re homeless. It can     someone who’s often treated as invisible – is
                 Contact a shelter and find what         make you feel good to use your money and time vital. Any action you take to make a difference
          donations they want.                           to give a blessing bag, but how useful is it,   could really help.  Whatever you do, your
                 Agree with your principal / headteacher /  really?                                      support counts.
          student union / boss that you can have a               The problem with blessing bags is that
          donation day.                                  their contents make a lot of assumptions about Your Local Police, Fire Department and Clergy
                 Get them to agree to your putting a large  the person they’re being given to. Homeless  would be help you to find your local
          box or two in a public area that people can fill  people have different needs and goals, and gifts organization or shelter that can use your help.
          with the donations that the shelter of your choice  like those mentioned above may not always be
          is looking for.                                welcome. Things like soap can be relatively easy Remember, if you are not part of the solution,
                 Get your principal / headteacher / student  to get. If someone doesn’t have a toothbrush or  you are part of the problem. []
          union / boss to promote the donation day in the
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