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         Internet Addiction: When

         How Much Is Too Much?



                   by Anu Bhambhani


        Uncontrollable urge to be constantly hooked to
        internet via smartphone, laptop, tablet and other
        gadgets is one of the signs of internet addiction
        disorder, something we need to save our
        children from.
               I am a first time parent to a 19 month old
        girl, working from home.  As a stay at home
        parent, I have managed to instil in her love for
        reading books. Her vocabulary is more than
        double for toddlers her age. However, in times
        of real deadline pressures and exasperation of
        her demanding my attention all the time, I am
        also guilty of introducing her to the iPad. Since
        past one month, she is hooked to watching
        ‘Jingle bells…’ online. Her screen time is a
        good 30 minutes without blinking her eyes. She
        knows how to change the tracks online, even     lot of time in front of the computer. Having said
        waits for the first five seconds for the        that, it really depends on what they are looking
        advertisement in the  YouTube video before      at online which is the deciding factor. In case of
        asking me to tap ‘skip the ad’ tab. Needless to  children, parents can always spot an addict early
        mention, cries inconsolably when I take it away  on. Here’s a checklist.
        from her. And, she is only 19 months old.
               Wonder what parents of grown up kids
        go through. Kids older than five are already     •  Does your child have a lot of online friends
        aware of how technology works.  They know           with whom s/he likes to talk in chat rooms
        how downloading, streaming, buffering,              or through messaging, more than the real
        browsing, etc., works and this is just the basic    friends?
        tech vocabulary.  Their screen time extends      •  Does s/he compulsively reach out for the         PARANORMAL STAKEOUT
        hours. Parental control comes in the form of        cellphone, tablet or laptop to check                            with
        them getting scolded, grounded and even locked      messages, calls, updates all the time even
        in their rooms, but no matter what their love for   when it is not required making the person a            LARRY LAWSON
        technology doesn’t seem to end. For parents         social recluse?                                 Investigating and Research Ghosts,
        today, it has become a challenge to curtail      •  Does s/he spend hours on social networking   Hauntings, and things that go “BUMP” in
        screen time of their kids. While some parents do    sites which makes it impossible to              the night using Police Investigative
        allow it for practical reasons, it is really        concentrate on study or work, leading to fall   Techniques to Solve the Paranormal.
        important to know when how much is too much         in productivity in studies and at work?
        so that it doesn’t turn into what is known as    •  Are the child’s online activities dominated      To contact Larry Lawson - Email -
        internet addiction disorder.                        by online games, visiting inappropriate                larrylawson@xzbn.net
                                                            sites, e-commerce sites, etc?
        What is Internet Addiction Disorder?                                                               www.XZBN.net
                                                        If you ticked all of these factors, then your child
        Remember that Spice Girls Song “Too much of     might be suffering from internet addiction
        something is bad enough…”?  Well, when          disorder or may be bordering on it. It is
        talking about screen time for the kids, there is a  extremely important to offer help to your child
        limit that must be set lest they get addicted to  when there is still time. I too suffered from it
        the internet. Browse the web and you will read  temporarily and paid a price for it with my
        Wikipedia listing synonyms of Internet          health. []
        Addiction Disorder as Problematic Internet Use
        (PIU) or Compulsive Internet Use (CIU). Some     From the Pages of “Did You Know?”
        also refer to it as Internet Compulsivity and
                                                         by Rob McConnell:
        Internet Dependency.  When one’s use of
        internet starts to affect his or daily activities and
        social relationships with family and friends,    DYK: Leading cause of death in Papua, New
        that’s a sure sign of internet addiction disorder.  Guinea is falling trees.                              KNOW THE NAME,
        What’s a matter of concern is that with growing  DYK...Humphrey Bogart’s first line as an           KNOW THE GENIUS IN YOU
        fondness for gadgets and related technology, the  actor was “Tennis anyone?”
        young generation is increasingly falling for it.  DYK...Honolulu is Hawaiian for “sheltered         with SHARON LYNN WYETH
                                                         harbor.”                                             From the creator of NEIMOLOGY,
        How to recognise Internet  Addiction             DYK...A cremnophobeis someone who is            Sharon Lynn Wyeth interviews and discovers
                                                         afraid of falling down stairs.
        Disorder?                                                                                        the genius in the name of her guests and will
                                                         DYK...Chili comes from an Aztec word that       tell listeners how they can find out what their
                                                         means “bowl of red.”                            names tells them about their inner genius. To
        There are many telltale signs of a person being
                                                         DYK...Woodrow Wilson was the last                   contact Sharon Lynn Wyeth - Email -
        addicted to the internet. And, screen time is not  president to type all his own letters.
        necessarily the biggest one of all. These days,                                                            knowthename@xzbn.net
        schools and colleges too insist their students to
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        do projects for which they have to do a lot of                                                     www.XZBN.net
                                                                  www.robmcconnell.ca
        online research, so they may end up spending a
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