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UNDERSTANDING










    As we step into another phase in our life, entering polytechnics, it is

    normal for guys and girls to have feelings for each other and/or even

    date each other. So in this article, we are here to help you identify

    useful tips in relationships that are given by love experts. Firstly, it is to

    identify if the love you are having is a mature or immature love.



    For Immature Love:


      Paint a very rosy and unrealistic

      image & expectations of the other

      person


      Feel they can’t survive without the

      person

      Attracted to their partner’s physical

      appearance

      Think that jealousy is the same as

      love

      Feelings of unworthiness if breakup                          For mature Love:



                                                                  Realistic views about their

                                                                  partners, shows the person love

                                                                  and respect

                                                                  Relationship has grown from

                                                                  friendship to love

                                                                  Attracted to their partner’s

                                                                  qualities of being kind, loyal and

                                                                  caring

                                                                  Have more self esteem, liking

                                                                  themselves more


                                                                  Able to work out conflicts and
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