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houses with little children at home? The children are also sad and confused, sometimes after a long term of hosp‫ד‬i"ta‫ס‬l‫ב‬-

ization, while the house was looked after by charity organizations. The children develop anxieties, and the strong
figure, who supports and encourages should be the parent himself, with all that he/she has to cope with. No wonder
that many times the parents suppress their sorrow and push their pain into a corner, in order to deal with the reha-

‫דבר הארגון‬bilitation of their family. Unfortunately, suppression was never helpful to anybody.
Some find it difficult to participate in joyful events, even those of the closest family. Many other problems and dif-

f‫י‬i‫נ‬c‫פ‬u‫ל‬lt‫ב‬ie‫שו‬s c‫ו‬a‫ב‬ll‫ו‬f‫ש‬or‫ת‬o‫ר‬n‫כ‬e‫וז‬o‫מ‬rg‫ו‬a‫ה‬n‫ש‬iz‫ק‬a‫ב‬ti‫ה‬on‫ה‬w‫ול‬h‫ע‬ic‫ן‬h‫די‬w‫ה‬i‫י‬ll‫מ‬f‫י‬u‫ל‬n‫ש‬cti‫ר‬o‫ת‬n‫ו‬a‫י‬s‫ב‬a‫ת‬s‫ו‬u‫ל‬p‫ע‬p‫נ‬o‫ה‬rt‫ת‬in‫עו‬g‫ש‬ar‫ב‬m–, l"i‫ר‬st‫ו‬e‫כ‬n‫תז‬ing‫ים‬e‫מ‬a‫ח‬r a‫ר‬n‫ב‬d.o..p‫עו‬e‫ר‬n‫ז‬s‫ל‬e‫ק‬ns‫ח‬it‫צ‬i‫י‬ve‫ת‬h‫ד‬e‫קי‬ar‫ע‬t‫ו‬."

‫נהוהומרזכהיערילםילאדיתופחזרקשיתם‬T‫מיא‬h‫נחה‬i‫ש‬s‫יהר‬i‫ר‬s‫שוהת‬h‫ימ‬,o‫ררב‬w‫םנו"בראשוא‬H‫גא‬i‫ו‬,‫ה‬z‫בנו‬k‫קיון‬u‫םיצה"נחס‬o‫צת‬r‫עוא‬g‫ןה‬a‫אע"כ‬n‫יא‬i‫אכ‬z,‫וד‬a‫קז‬t‫עת‬i‫שו‬o‫בזכ‬n‫םדה‬w‫סעדקיי‬a‫חה‬s‫וםתו‬b‫זמיכ‬o‫נוח‬r‫לר‬n‫נרו‬.‫יםשיזעכלוי‬,‫האבעינקיודשהבומשעמוירםר‬

B‫ת‬e‫ו‬r‫כ‬e‫ז‬a‫ו‬v,‫ו‬e‫די‬m‫ל‬e‫י‬n‫מ‬t‫ד‬a‫ח‬m‫א‬on‫ל‬g‫כו‬C‫שי‬ha‫ל‬re‫ש‬di‫ה‬f‫ז‬a‫ך‬m‫תו‬il‫י‬i‫ה‬es‫ר‬i‫ו‬n‫בכ‬Isr‫ה‬a‫ס‬e‫נ‬l‫ת‬h‫מ‬ap‫ן‬p‫יו‬e‫ל‬n‫ע‬s ‫ת‬so‫ר‬m‫גזי‬e‫ב‬ti‫ש‬me‫מי‬s ‫ל‬4-‫ם‬6 ‫י‬t‫ש‬im‫ר‬e‫ד‬s‫שנ‬a m‫ש‬o‫פ‬n‫נ‬t‫ה‬h.‫ת‬It‫חו‬so‫כו‬m‫ם‬e‫ה‬tim‫ים‬e‫מ‬s‫ו‬h‫צ‬a‫ע‬p‫ו‬p,‫ל‬en‫כ‬s‫מ‬th‫ם‬a‫ה‬t
a mother suddenly has to sit Shivah, with ten chi.l‫ם‬d‫י‬r‫מ‬en‫ח‬a‫ר‬r‫ו‬o‫ה‬u‫ע‬n‫ו‬d‫ש‬h‫י‬e‫ר‬r‫ב‬a‫ד‬n‫ב‬d ‫ד‬w‫י‬i‫מ‬th‫ת‬n‫ד‬o‫ק‬o‫פ‬n‫ה‬e‫ל‬to‫ת‬l‫ו‬o‫ר‬o‫ו‬k‫הד‬af‫ל‬te‫כ‬r‫ף‬th‫סו‬em‫ד‬.‫ע‬S‫ו‬o‫לנ‬th‫ת‬e‫'ד‬H‫מ‬i‫ו‬z‫ע‬ku‫'זו‬

family accompanies the family from the first minute of bereavement for one whole year.

D‫ט‬u‫קו‬ri‫ל‬n‫ל‬g‫ו‬t‫נ‬h‫ג‬e‫ ל‬S‫ד‬h‫ר‬i‫י‬v‫י‬a‫ד‬h‫דו‬d,a‫א‬y‫ח‬s‫י‬a‫ש‬s‫מ‬w‫ד‬el‫א‬l ‫ת‬as‫קב‬on‫ע‬S‫ר‬h‫דו‬ab-b‫ה‬a‫ז‬t,‫נו‬w‫רי‬e‫דו‬su‫ב‬p,‫ל‬p‫י‬ly‫ו ג‬f‫א‬oo‫ר‬d‫גז‬t‫מ‬o ‫ם‬th‫ו‬e‫ש‬f‫ל‬am‫ ע‬i‫ח‬ly‫ס‬.‫פ‬W‫א‬e‫ל‬a‫ו‬ls,‫ו‬o‫נינ‬p‫ו‬r‫ל‬o‫ח‬v‫ב‬id.e..t‫ה‬h‫ל‬e‫ע‬m‫ב‬w‫ר‬i‫ה‬th‫נו‬p‫ני‬s‫ו‬y‫ב‬c‫א‬h‫ד‬o‫ל‬-
l‫ם‬o‫ע‬gic‫ב‬a‫ל‬l‫ח‬as‫י‬s‫ל‬i‫ו‬s‫מ‬ta‫ג‬n‫ת‬ce‫קו‬u‫נו‬n‫י‬t‫ת‬il ,t‫ה‬h‫כ‬ey‫ ב‬f‫ה‬e‫ז‬e‫ו‬l‫ה‬th‫כ‬e‫ב‬y‫ה‬c‫ז‬an,‫ם‬c‫ה‬o‫י‬p‫מ‬e‫לו‬b‫ע‬y‫שושנים וממיטב בני בנות ישראל נלקחים מחיק הוריהם בשנות‬
'yct‫ללת‬Shae‫כל‬h‫ו‬ela‫חר‬am‫ת‬gr‫ו‬b‫ב‬aw‫םא‬sbt‫ש‬ea‫י‬he‫ל‬l‫ר‬tve‫י‬a‫תי‬r‫כ‬Me‫ת‬ris‫וי‬en‫ו‬e‫ש‬.‫מח‬g'pEo‫ופ‬l‫ב‬fvra‫ש‬o‫ם‬o‫ל‬enrt‫ה‬r‫במ‬n'y,t‫י‬i‫ו‬h‫ר‬f‫א‬nfoe‫בםצ‬ger‫ו‬bw‫ני‬a‫רם‬ae‫א‬l‫הו‬Srlm‫ה‬e‫ל‬h‫מ‬tah‫ו‬oa‫ם‬ve‫ם‬bn‫ם‬e‫ה‬bt‫יד‬pdh‫פי‬a‫א‬a‫ר‬st‫ט‬pr‫ח‬g‫ם‬wea‫אק‬nar‫נק‬eetthsn‫אםם‬oet‫ת‬f‫י‬r‫ל‬sr‫ר‬rg,i‫ד‬o‫די‬naa‫לת‬m‫ו‬gnn‫ועי‬,id‫מ‬z‫ו‬al.‫א‬ieol‫ת‬kl‫ו‬ne‫לםב‬aoc‫אא‬v‫ד‬telhoe‫לו‬a‫ד‬e‫ם‬r-‫בוכאראלהושורגהי‬,‫נהאעצשרעיררםלעואנדעמלורועצותאמיעקםםםמוזנאורבהורלותנתפואהשימגםוהוןומהתנואולחיפללפדרייוםםחהםרוכרהיישםם‬
,‫תשב"ר‬
‫ורצוצות‬
‫תהומות‬

the country. .‫עצום בקרבם‬

s"‫ו‬Mu‫כי‬cy‫ר‬h‫ד‬dar‫ל‬eS‫כ‬ahm‫י‬a‫כ‬b"‫ו‬b,‫ל‬as‫ע‬tta‫פ‬ftoe‫ם‬rs‫י‬b‫מ‬Re‫ת‬areb‫ר‬ab‫ו‬vi‫צ‬eK‫ה‬dlu–pga‫א‬er‫י‬er‫מ‬,n‫ש‬t"sisi‫פי‬nto‫ל‬th‫כ‬oe‫ה‬rgc‫ני‬oa‫ו‬nu‫ר‬ir‫ט‬zs‫ב‬ee ‫ לא שואלים שאלות ולא באים ח"ו‬,‫איננו יודעים חשבונות שמים‬
o,‫ב‬f‫ר‬th‫צו‬e c‫ב‬o‫א‬m‫הכ‬in,g‫כך‬y‫ל‬ea‫ה‬r.‫ שלא בסתיר‬,‫ אך‬.‫ אב גדול לנו בשמים ואין ערוך לאהבתו אותנו‬,‫ על אלה גודלנו וכך חונכנו‬,‫משפט‬

The Gemara, in the tractate Sha.‫ח‬bb‫נו‬a‫מ‬t p‫ם‬a‫י‬g‫תנ‬e‫ו‬1‫נ‬1‫ם‬8,‫נ‬s‫אי‬ay‫ת‬s,‫ והזכרונו‬,‫הגעגועים לא מרפים המקום בלב נשאר שמור ולא נעלם‬

l“‫ם‬iOm‫ת‬ni‫ו‬et‫א‬let‫ר‬hs‫ב‬as‫ו‬ti,nm‫א‬h"ae‫ו‬k‫א‬rei‫כ‬tsa‫ל‬nth‫ר‬ce‫ו‬e‫ז‬.‫מ‬SIht‫ת‬ad‫ת‬bob‫ל‬eas‫ת‬tn‫ו‬do‫י‬e‫פ‬tl‫ו‬is‫צ‬gah‫ם‬yt‫ה‬f“uo‫ני‬ln‫י‬i‫ע‬Ss‫ו‬hg‫ם‬ai‫ע‬bvb‫ה‬ena‫א‬t”a‫ש‬, ‫ בהוראת גדולי וצדיקי ישראל שליט"א אשר נושאים את מ‬,‫ועתה‬
o)‫י‬r(‫ש‬Sh‫ם‬ab‫רי‬b‫ו‬a‫ה‬t, ‫ן‬b‫מי‬ut‫לי‬th‫ד‬e‫מו‬S‫ע‬ha‫ל‬b,b‫תו‬at‫טר‬- ‫מ‬wi‫ת‬th‫אח‬he‫ר‬y‫ש‬h‫א‬ay'‫ו‬e‫ק‬d‫ז‬i‫ח‬y'a.‫משפחת‬-‫ קם ונוסד ארגון‬,‫את צורך השעה בהקמת ארגון מעין זה‬
One who m.‫ת‬ak‫רו‬e‫ח‬s ‫ו‬t‫א‬he‫מ‬S‫ר‬h‫ת‬a‫ו‬b‫י‬b‫ה‬a‫ת‬t ‫ו‬d‫פ‬e‫ו‬l‫ק‬ig‫ת‬h‫ב‬tf‫ן‬u‫ה‬l‫ו‬w‫ד‬i‫י‬t‫מ‬h ‫ן‬a‫ה‬h‫ם‬ey‫זמנים הקשי‬A‫ב‬v‫ך‬o‫ר‬s‫ט‬V‫'צ‬B‫מ‬o‫ה‬n‫ל‬im‫)בכ‬P‫ע‬a‫יי‬r‫ס‬en‫ול‬ts‫ד‬a‫ד‬n‫עו‬d‫ת‬C‫ה‬h‫ל‬il‫ו‬d‫ק‬re‫חז‬n‫ת‬st‫ה‬u‫ל‬di,‫ו‬e‫ל‬s‫כולים (א‬
hayediya – those bereaved parents that come to the of Chizku children

lm‫ען‬e‫דו‬s‫ר‬es‫כי‬e‫מ‬et‫ז‬i‫ל‬s‫ה‬ntga‫לם‬t‫ו‬o‫כ‬e‫ק‬f‫ת‬i‫מ‬as‫א‬lgl‫ש‬it‫ש‬hv‫שי‬ee‫י‬n‫ו‬p‫ב‬.‫ת‬a‫ש‬Fr‫ע‬er‫ד‬on‫לון‬mt‫ג‬s‫בר‬tt‫א‬oh‫בטו‬gee‫ם‬w‫י‬t‫מ‬h‫ו‬o‫צק‬err‫עמ‬d–s‫םה‬too‫קה‬ft‫ול‬hR‫ז‬o‫י‬a‫חש‬sb‫י‬e‫ה‬b‫ם‬ai‫ים‬Sl‫ר‬i‫ע‬hm‫ח‬m.‫א‬i.t.u-‫לן‬e‫עכ‬l-A‫תו‬h,‫וא‬a‫ומ‬r‫ב‬o‫יצו‬n‫אע‬L‫לת‬id‫ וש‬e‫ק‬r‫זה‬S‫חרו‬h‫ק‬l‫ע‬i‫מ‬t‫י‬a‫לפ‬.‫ומגרםוכאזל(ובאזכשורתב"שהארמחמוזשקפיחםוותביחכזלקתו)םעללהכש‬
In the meantime, the organization does not remain aloof. In spite of budget restrictions, every two w.e‫ד‬e‫ח‬k‫י‬s‫ק‬w‫זו‬e‫חי‬o‫ל‬r‫ו‬-

ganize a supportive unifying gathering for parents in a different town in Israel. At the same time, Rabbi Kluger is

busy dealing with the problems that come up in front of him. Amazing to see how much Hizku was an inevitability.

Parents are phoning desperately with severe problems, and Rabbi Kluger recruits his entire strength to provide help

and relief.
"We do not want to be assisted by psychologists who do not have a Torah background", he expresses his doc-

‫פעילויות הארגון‬trine, "the attitude of the organization is to be helped by Rabbanim and Gedolei Torah who experienced such
an ordeal personally. I cannot describe how much a word of a great man, who is acquainted with the difficul-

tmieusc, hcasntrsetnregnthgtahnednsaunpdpeonrtctooutrhaeg‫ן‬pe‫ו‬a‫י‬a‫ע‬rpti‫י‬ec‫מ‬risp‫י‬o‫ו‬ant-i.nT‫ת‬gh‫י‬pe‫ב‬yara‫י‬e‫ב‬lns‫ר‬ots‫ע‬p".a-rt‫ת‬ic‫ו‬i‫ת‬pa‫ב‬t‫ש‬e in-th‫ם‬e‫י‬g‫ס‬a‫נ‬t‫כ‬herings that we organize and give

F‫ף‬r‫ס‬o‫ו‬m‫ובנ‬on,‫ם‬e‫רי‬g‫ו‬a‫ה‬th‫ל‬e‫ק‬ri‫ר‬n‫ו‬g‫ך‬t‫א‬o ‫ם‬th‫י‬e‫עד‬n‫ו‬e‫י‬x‫מ‬t‫ה‬, e‫ת‬x‫ו‬c‫ד‬it‫ח‬e‫ו‬d‫מי‬te‫ת‬ar‫ו‬f‫ת‬u‫ב‬l‫ש‬re‫ו‬s‫ש‬po‫בו‬n‫י‬s‫ג‬es‫מי‬o‫י‬f,p‫ת‬a‫בי‬re‫י‬n‫ב‬t‫ר‬s‫ע‬w,h‫ם‬o‫סי‬fo‫כנ‬un‫א‬d‫הי‬th‫ת‬e‫זי‬a‫כ‬d‫ר‬d‫מ‬re‫ה‬ss‫ת‬f‫ד‬o‫ח‬r‫א‬th‫מ‬e‫ה‬ir‫ת‬d‫ו‬i‫ל‬s‫י‬t‫ע‬re‫פ‬s‫ה‬s
f‫י‬l‫נ‬o‫ב‬w‫אר‬to‫'ש‬H‫ת‬i‫א‬zk‫ק‬u‫ח'ז‬o‫ל‬r‫ו‬g‫ץ‬a‫מ‬n‫א‬iz‫ל‬a‫ו‬ti,‫ו‬o‫ב‬n‫לי‬. T‫ל‬h‫ע‬e‫ר‬y‫ש‬ar‫א‬e‫ת‬g‫א‬at‫ח‬he‫שי‬re‫מ‬d‫א‬in"t‫כ‬o‫ש‬th‫כ‬e‫ח‬b‫שי‬os‫י‬o‫ב‬m‫ור‬o‫ם‬f‫לי‬th‫אנ‬e‫פ‬or‫ם‬g‫ה‬a‫ב‬ni‫ם‬z‫י‬a‫מ‬ti‫י‬o‫קי‬n‫ת‬, w‫מ‬h,‫ם‬ic‫י‬h‫מע‬ai‫ש‬m‫נ‬s‫ה‬t‫ק‬o‫ו‬t‫ז‬u‫חי‬rn‫ה‬a‫רי‬ll‫ב‬t‫ד‬h‫ל‬e
bs'‫ו‬te‫ק‬arn‫ז‬e‫ח‬da'ivn‫ת‬eg‫ח‬d,‫פ‬spy‫ש‬amr‫מ‬ep‫ל‬nat‫ם‬sth‫ה‬iyn‫ם‬at‫ג‬nh‫ם‬de ‫י‬eH‫כ‬n‫י‬o‫י‬c.‫ת‬l‫ת‬yo‫ש‬u‫ל‬Lr‫מו‬aa‫כ‬ng‫הרי‬de‫ש‬m‫י‬i‫אפ‬ne‫כ‬t‫ת‬no,t‫ום‬o:‫ע"ב‬n‫י‬B‫טש‬ee‫י‬b‫ב‬o‫י‬i‫ו‬f‫ש‬g‫ט‬g‫אב‬so‫ו‬u‫ר‬o‫ה‬p‫ו‬dp‫םב‬co‫יח‬o‫נ‬r‫בר‬tu‫ה‬i‫ר‬rv‫ו‬ae,‫םר‬gf‫א‬e"a‫פי‬a‫ר‬m‫ב‬n‫מו‬id‫ד‬ly‫ד‬H",‫סא‬ew‫לב‬shh‫לש‬ia‫כ‬lel‫הת‬l s‫שו‬s‫פ‬atr‫כ‬y‫ת‬ei,‫ת‬nn‫ם‬g‫ש‬g‫י‬t‫פ‬h‫ה‬t‫ת‬oe‫תב‬n‫ו‬th‫ש‬,y‫ת‬eo‫מ‬m‫ב‬u‫חה‬rw‫שר‬h‫ו‬ie‫פמ‬tah‫נה‬r‫ב‬tlo"‫קשו‬.ts‫חהז‬o‫מ‬f‫םת‬u‫יח‬n‫עפ‬d‫דש‬e‫ו‬r‫ימ‬-‫ו‬

All those who want to be assisted by Hizku organization or to assist with advice or money, is invited to address

R‫ה‬a‫ב‬b‫ר‬b‫ה‬i‫ת‬K‫ל‬lu‫ע‬g‫תו‬er‫ה‬o‫ל‬n‫ע‬T‫ם‬el‫י‬:‫ר‬+‫ו‬9‫ה‬7‫ה‬2-‫מ‬57‫ת‬-3‫בו‬18‫ה‬4‫ל‬0‫נ‬1‫ת‬3 o‫בו‬r‫ו‬t‫ג‬h‫ת‬e‫ת‬se‫לו‬c‫ב‬re‫ק‬t‫ת‬ar‫מ‬y‫ו‬o‫ז‬f‫כ‬t‫ת‬he‫לו‬o‫עי‬rg‫פ‬a‫ל‬n‫כ‬iz‫ר‬a‫ח‬ti‫א‬o‫ל‬n,‫ר‬R‫ש‬a‫א‬bb‫כ‬i‫ם‬K‫מ‬a‫צ‬tz‫ע‬o‫ד‬n‫ע‬+‫ב‬97‫ת‬2‫ו‬-‫ד‬5‫י‬2‫ע‬-7‫מ‬14‫ת‬4‫ו‬4‫ב‬4‫ו‬9‫ג‬.‫ואכן הת‬