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something that they can use against you later on. When you tell
                              them their argument makes no sense, they’ll put on a show

                              worthy of an Oscar about how deeply you’ve hurt them. They’ll
                              keep pushing and pushing and if you let them, they’ll push you
                              right over the edge and everything you say can and will be used
                              against you at the next opportunity they get.



                              They Tell You They’ll Die Without You - Possibly one of the
                              biggest lies a manipulator spins are the lies that tell you that they

                              simply cannot live without you. That if you leave them, they will
                              die. They’re not going to, and they’ll certainly never do anything
                              to harm themselves. It’s just a lie that they’re spinning to make
                              you feel guilty for even entertaining the notion of possibly

                              ending the relationship when you see them for who they really
                              are. There’s a term for this kind of behavior, and it’s called
                              emotional blackmail, and it is arguably one of the most selfish
                              characteristics of being in a relationship with a manipulative

                              individual. No one should have to make you feel scared or guilty
                              about doing what’s best for you, and they certainly should not be
                              shoving the responsibility of their life onto you in such a manner.
                              Telling you that they will die if you ever leave them is nothing

                              but an empty threat, and once you know for sure you want to cut
                              ties with the manipulator, never let them make you feel guilty for
                              this decision. You have a responsibility for your own wellbeing
                              and what they choose to do with their life is up to them.



                              Twisting Lies with Even More Lies - Manipulators can spin

                              lies as intricately as a spider spins its web. They’ll lie, twist those
                              lies, and then twist those lies even more until you don’t know
                              what’s real and what isn’t anymore. Twisting and distorting the
                              facts, tangling lies on top of more lies is a favorite tactic of the

                              manipulator to confuse and frustrate you. They’ll drive you
                              insane and make you question your own sanity and they do it so
                              skillfully to the point that you believe something is wrong with
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