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Protective Measures




      In some instances, temporary 'Protective Measures' may be needed until the

      child has the skills to manage well.


      The purpose of a 'Protective Measure' is to:



      ▪ Protect the child:


      If a child is not managing to speak and act in ways that are good

      for them or others, we need to protect them from being in situations
      they cannot manage (yet). If we do not, they will build an identity of

      being aggressive, difficult or antisocial, when in fact, it is just that

      they haven't yet got the skills required to do well.


      ▪ Protect those around them:


      It is of course vital that people around the child are protected from

      words and actions that damage their 5C Needs.



      'Protective Measures' are designed to help children

      manage well, not make them feel bad


      ▪ A protective measure is quite different to a punishment in its purpose and its spirit: we want

          the child to be in situations they can manage well and enjoy their time there until they have
          the skills to be given greater freedoms.
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