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Emotional Needs Checklist



























             I explained the individual needs cards linked to feeling connected and feeling












             I count:













             The needs we have to feel good around people:


















            EMOTIONAL NEEDS CHECK: PEOPLE AROUND ME



































































                Do I feel liked and supported by                                                                               Do I feel liked and supported by                                                                              Do I feel good as the person I am?                                                                             Do I feel I count and matter? Do I                                                                              Do I feel listened to/understood?                                                                           Do I feel a sense of belonging




                the adults / those in charge?                                                                                  the children around me?                                                                                       Can I be my real self here?                                                                                    feel as important as others?                                                                                    Do I feel my views count?                                                                                   here?







                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             If not, what stops me from feeling                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Where and when do I get a strong

                If not, what would need to happen                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           If not, what would help me to feel
                                                                                                                               If not, what would need to happen                                                                             ok about myself? What would I                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              feeling of belonging? What am I

                for me to feel liked and supported                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          If not, what would help me feel as                                                                              listened to and understood?

                                                                                                                               for me to feel supported,                                                                                     want to be different? Is that to                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           doing? Who am I with? When
                and to build good connections                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               if I count more? What could others                                                                              What could I negotiate or

                                                                                                                               respected and safe in their                                                                                   please others and feel I belong or                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         does it not feel so strong? What

                with adults?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                around me do which would help?                                                                                  positively challenge so it is better
                                                                                                                               company? What help do I need?                                                                                 because I would feel better about                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          would help improve it at those

                What are the first steps?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   for me?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             myself?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    times?





























              I also explained the separate cards linked to feeling capable and feeling a













              sense of control.












              The needs we have to feel good when we are doing things and going places:

















           EMOTIONAL NEEDS CHECK: WORLD AROUND ME NEEDS










































































                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Do I feel a sense of control

                                                                                                                              Can I keep going when I get                                                                                    Do I feel  good about my strengths                                                                                                                                                                                          Do I feel sure about what is                                                                                   Do I feel sure about what will

                Do I feel capable?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         over things happening in my

                                                                                                                              stuck?                                                                                                         and ok about any difficulties?                                                                                                                                                                                              expected of me?                                                                                                be happening?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           life?








                If not, what could help me? Could                                                                             Do I feel I can manage when I get                                                                              Am I making the most of my                                                                                    If not, what could I say or do to                                                                             If not, who could I ask? Could I ask                                                                           What am I unsure of? What do I



                I ask for more support? Some                                                                                  stuck? Could I try working with                                                                                strengths each day? What could I                                                                              feel more in control? What do I                                                                               for examples of what I should be                                                                               want to know? How could I find



                extra teaching? A piece of                                                                                    someone to create a checklist of                                                                               do to use them more?  Have I got                                                                              want to happen? What could I ask                                                                              aiming for or shadow someone                                                                                   out? Could anything help in the




                equipment to help?                                                                                            things to help when I get stuck?                                                                               things to help me with difficulties?                                                                          for and who could I ask?                                                                                      who is good at this?                                                                                           future? A diary? Calendar?
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