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The Blamer




             The Blamer is someone who judges, criticises or blames other people

             when things aren’t how they want them to be.



             If you have slipped into a Blamer position, you might hear yourself

             saying:


                                                                                                                 There’s just one
               The trouble with him                                                                          change after another!
                            is ….




                                                                                                              Why don’t they just
                     She’s useless!                                                                               get on with it!







                      She’s always                                                                              This is a waste of
                        criticising.                                                                                      time!







                 Communication is                                                                            They just keep piling
                         rubbish!                                                                                   on the work.






                                                                                                  Adapted by K Messenger from The Drama Triangle by S Karpman.
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