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Still another device that works for some is this: After flipping
mentally through your shortlist, look at a bedside object, like a
clock radio. Tie your mental memory to that object, so that when
you look at it the next morning, your list will pop back into your
head.
Ensuring these tips work requires that you do it regularly— it’s a
no-brainer!
Tip #3 - What’s in a Name?
Having trouble remembering someone’s name is a common
complaint. As part of ongoing communication, remembering a
name is crucial. Meeting with a person you’ve interacted with
previously and not remembering their name is, if nothing else,
embarrassing. Here are some ways to avoid going over that cliff.
Physicians at UCLA tell us that we should make recalling a
person’s name like taking a picture. First, you “look,” by focusing
on the person you’re meeting. Then you say their name: “Hi,
Nancy!” As you do this, simultaneously visualize matching Nancy’s
face with something (e.g., hair color, clothing items, etc.).
Then, connect the two. Join the images so face and visual come
together. Then do it again, by saying the person’s name (e.g.,
“Nancy”).
While looking at her, visualize her blonde hair, and certain things
about her face while saying her name aloud (as in an introduction).
The art of communication is one of the cogs in the wheel that
keeps society rolling forward. Being aware of someone’s name
and being able to repeat it when you see and network with them
a second or third time is not only a courtesy, but it’s also an
icebreaker. Launching a discussion while knowing the name of
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