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The	 panic	 attacks	 started	 in	 my	 early	 twenties,	 when	 I	 began	 law	 school.	 A
panic	 attack	 feels	 like	 you’re	 about	 to	 have	 a	 heart	 attack	 and	 can	 happen	 for	 two
reasons:	 one,	because	you	have	something	 scary	 to	do	(public	 speaking,	 facing	an
ex,	getting	on	airplane),	or	two,	for	no	reason	at	all.

    If 	 you’ve	 never	 had	 a	 panic	 attack,	 here’s	 the	 best	 way	 to	 describe	 them:	 it’s
when	 your	 mind	 and	 body	 have	 a	 “near	 miss”	 experience	 that’s	 totally	 out	 of
context.	Allow	me	to	explain	using	a	really	simple	analogy.

Normal	Panic	vs.	Panic	Attacks

    There	 will	 be	 tons	 of 	 times	 in	 your	 life	 when	 you	 will	 panic	 and	 it	 will	 be
completely	normal.	Let’s	say	you	are	driving	a	car	and	are	about	to	change	lanes	on
the	 highway.	 Suddenly,	 out	 of 	 nowhere,	 a	 car	 races	 by	 you	 and	 cuts	 you	 off,	 you
swerve	to	get	out	of 	the	way	but	they	nearly	miss	you.	When	a	“near	miss”	happens
on	the	highway	you	feel	a	surge	of 	adrenaline	race	through	your	body.	Your	heart
races.	 Your	 breath	 speeds	 up.	 Your	 cortisol	 surges.	 Your	 body	 goes	 into	 a	 state	 of
hyper-alertness	 so	 you	 can	 take	 control	 of 	 the	 car.	 You	 might	 even	 get	 a	 little
sweaty.

    As	soon	as	your	body	freaks	out,	it	triggers	your	mind	to	find	a	reason	why	your
body	 is	 so	 agitated.	 In	 this	 example	 on	 the	 highway,	 your	 brain	 knows	 you	 almost
got	in	a	car	crash	and	that’s	why	your	body	freaked	out.
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