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RICHARD GOVE TYSER                                                                    George, our father, called the restaurant and told my mom, and

                                                                                                           she called me to relay the bad news. An understatement indeed,
                                  MAR. 20, 1948 - SEPT. 19, 1970                                           she asked if she could pick me up to attend the funeral, and of

                                                                                                           course, I wanted to go. I waited the day we were to leave, but
              Everyone loved Dickey, with good reason. He was reachable and could love                     she never showed. Later that evening, I spoke to her and asked
              you right back. I like to think and do think I was his favorite. He sure had a               why. She replied that after thinking it over, she thought it would
              way of making me believe so.                                                                 upset everyone with my presence. I cried. How could anyone be
                                                                                                           that mean?

              One Christmas, our families crossed at Georges' home, and there were so
              many presents under the tree, so many they needed to put a lot more in                       She later said my mother thought God punished her for giving
              the bedroom, so everyone had room to walk. Dickey noticed I only had                         me up.
              one or two gifts, one I remember as underwear. Being the loving brother
              he was, he decided to put my name on his unopened gifts and hand them                        I lost the only one that connected with and understood me. I was
              to me. We both liked models, and some I knew he had wanted for a long                        being punished as well.
              time. I made him agree to build for me and keep it safe in his room.
                                                                                                           She did the same when my father, George Henry, Died.

              Just this act of love for me was all that I needed. I wish there were more I
              could remember to share. What I do remember is a true brother's love for
              me and I him. I do miss him still. Often wonder what life would be like for
              us if he were here now.



              Dickey had just been discharged from the Marines when he was killed in a
              car accident. He was a passenger in the front seat, and according to
              witnesses and police reports, they were sitting at a four-way stop. A driver
              failed to stop and hit another car, sending that car into a stop sign that
              broke off and flew through their windshield. The sign decapitated my

              brother Dickey.

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