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What can be expected from a normally
developing 13-18 year old?
Look for the following:
13 - 18 yrs Strong convictions based on personal
beliefs

Some youth will be social order focused

Rebellious challenging of authority figures

Experimenting with new rules designed
by self (and maybe peers)

Following peer beliefs

Inconsistently following rules made by
others

Making lifestyle choices (vegetarianism)
based on values and beliefs

Incorporating values and rules and beliefs
from earlier influences such as parents or
religious beliefs

Increase understanding of human rights

Potentially following values not held by
family of origin

Inconsistent reporting of beliefs or values

Pro-social behavior becomes more
consistent and difficult dilemmas such as
reporting a friend for theft are moral
challenges youth face