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Life As An Exchange Of Energy

        Every contact you have with other people, with other living things, is an exchange of energy. Sometimes this exchange is palpable. You feel a surge, almost like an
        electrical charge, when you shake the hand of a person who has an outgoing personality and great vigour, or the warmth of love surround you when you hug a
        loved one.
        We "read" these energy exchanges, and use them both to communicate with and make assessments about each other. What do you notice about a couple that
        tells you they are deeply in love? They might walk along or sit together, holding hands, touching and sharing each other's physical space so they appear to be
        more as one than as two. As you get near, you can feel the energy of their togetherness like you might feel the charged air beneath a high-tension power line.
        This is such wonderful energy that you might feel like walking past this couple again, just to connect with it!

        Energy You Give To Others

                You give energy to others nearly every moment of the day, in each interaction you have with someone else. When this process stays a fairly balanced
                give-and-take situation, you don't notice much about it. You give and you receive, and your energy stays supportive of you physically, emotionally,
                and spiritually.
                When the balance shifts to giving more than to receiving, you might feel tired, rundown, and edgy. Everyone around you wants, wants, wants. No one
        seems to care what you might want or need. This constant demand drains your energy, and it's no longer sufficient to support your body, mind, and spirit.

        You might start to see indications of this in your health and attitude. You could become more susceptible to the "office bug" and assorted minor ailments. You
        might find yourself clumsier than usual, and prone to small injuries as a result. It's not that these problems are your fault. Rather, you're not able to resist them.
        You might even feel like your energy is being taken away from you, withdrawn from you, instead of you willingly giving it. We speak, sometimes, of people
        who "suck us dry." These people have such intense needs that they draw energy from those around them but have little to give back to make the process a
        fair exchange.


                Beware the energy vampires! these are the people and everyone knows at least one—who draw energy from you  the instant you are in contact   in person,
                over the phone, even by e-mail, the psychic vampire seems to “ plug in” ' to you and drain you dry.

        Dealing with Energy Vampires


        Energy vampires do not steal your blood but rather, your precious energy.  They drain you emotionally and psychologically. They frustrate you with their
        repetitious, self-indulgent, attention-seeking ways.


        Underneath, they are often bitter, angry and resentful.... and they want you to share their pain. They want your pity. They don't respond well to constructive
        feedback, they want attention. They don't want to take responsibility, they want you to take that. They blame anything and anyone but themselves for their   Page225
        situation, almost revelling in their own victim like misery. Day in, day out they produce the same result; no change.
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