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Quite simply, when you have decided what you want from a relationship, find a way of giving that component to the other person. It is human nature to reflect
back to a person the very quality they are showing you.

If you want quality attention from someone, you will be more likely to receive it if you give quality attention, unprompted first.

If you want someone to be interested in you, express sincere interest in who they are and what they do, what pleases them, what irritates the life out of them.
In showing your interest in someone, they will feel compelled to reciprocate.

If you want to share happiness with someone, discover what it is that makes them happy and deliver it. Bring happiness into someone’s life and invariably,
they will want to see you equally as happy.

If you want the respect of someone, show them sincere respect for an area you really do respect about them. Be specific, don’t generalise. Mean what you say
or don’t say it at all. If you just say “I really respect you”, They might think “What for?” and even ask you, so you must have a genuine reason for respecting
the, and give it in detail.

If you want to impress someone, find something about them that genuinely impresses you and tell them. Again, you must sincerely mean it. If you do not and
they spot your insincerity, it will create distrust.

If you want someone to believe in you, let them know you sincerely believe in them or have confidence in them. You get what you give. What you send out,
you get back.

Everything you do toward another person has a rebound effect toward you. If you convey, insincerely, that you love someone, in some way, that insincerity
will rebound back to you. However, every kind word, sincerely meant that raises the self esteem of someone will in turn, raise your own self esteem.

Regardless of how successful or happy a person may become, they will always need a degree of uplifting support for their self image. We` all need to feel
valuable and valued.

There are some people in my life, who make me like the way I feel about myself when I am with them. I can’t help but like those people because I feel more
positively about myself when I am with them.

The happiest and most successful people are those who make other people feel good about themselves. When we go through life helping others to genuinely
feel good about themselves, we attract opportunities and people in ways we could not previously imagine.

If you want to improve the quality of your human relationships, practice giving more of what you want to receive. . Page331