Page 374 - The Truth Landscape Format 2020 with next section introductions-compressed

Is What I'm Feeling Infatuation or Love?

Red Flag Thoughts: “You are my life. I can't live without you.”

Contrary to popular belief, there is a difference between infatuation and love. And there is a difference between lust and love.
Love is grown into; it develops over time. While, Hollywood would have us believe love can be manoeuvred in and out of, such
is not the case. It is a clear indication that our society has an unrealistic, if not diluted, view of love. There is love, and there is
infatuation, and, though related, they are distinctly different.

Infatuation: Love:
• Develops rather rapidly • Is grown into

• Based on limited characteristics • Based on the whole person

• Based on the emotion itself • Focuses on the person with whom you are involved

• Is selfish and self-centred • Is other person centred - selfless

• Changes rapidly • Demonstrates a deep commitment

• Loses touch with reality • Is a gradual development

• Largely outward or physical • Maintains balance of life and priorities

• Doubts/Insecurities • Involves the total relationship

• Jealousy/Possessiveness • Security/Peace Trust/Faith

Page374