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Susan did exhibit some traits of                       told us it didn’t matter how successful

        braggadocio, but it was obnoxious                      she became. She knew she could never
        only to Jennifer and no one else at the                live up to her mother’s exaggerated
        company. Jennifer would zero in on just                expectations. She couldn’t believe it when

        that aspect of Susan because it was part               it got clear.
        of her own shadow.

                                                               This is an example of how our Shadow is
        The next day the three of us went to                   bringing us important information that
        lunch, and Jennifer admitted to Amy                    can help us heal our parental imagos.

        and I that she got it that Susan was a                 Though her mother had already died,
        shadow figure inside of her. She also now  that mother complex lived on inside of

        knew what it meant and why she drew                    her until she could relate to it.
        this situation to her. Her mother had
        often belittled her and made her feel she              I want to stress that this is all of us, not

        wasn’t important. Unconsciously, she was  just her. Every one of us is neurotic in
        compensating for this complex she had                  some form or fashion. Jung defined a

        been carrying around her entire life. She  neurosis as ‘self-division.’ In Psychology


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