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            to share them all, but I will give you a taste of
            the types of things they wrote about.

            Thomas inquired about practical matters such as

            the status of their inheritances from General

            Washington’s and Betty Washington’s estates.
            He also asked several times for help in selling his
            shares of the Pacific Navigation Company.


            He often inquired about the welfare of various

            family members including Ann’s brother Robert

            Lewis, who had not answered any of the many

            letters that Thomas and Ann sent. He wrote,

            “Let us know whether he is alive and if so
                                                             The location of the family farm in Barren County, Kentucky
            whether his thirst for strong drink continues.”


            In one of the letters, Thomas goes into great detail about a religious revival that is sweeping the nation. And in
            another letter, he spoke of his many blessings and quoted the Bible enthusiastically.

            The days passed one after another in a rhythm of raising crops and children. They bought and sold land and

            made provisions for their family. This comfortable routine came to an end in 1835 when Ann was diagnosed
            with breast cancer, and at age 47, she died of the same disease that took her great grandmother, Mary Ball

            Washington. Her obituary, written by Thomas is quite interesting and sheds more light on their lives and their

                                                                                 love for each other. One of the
                                                                                 things I found most interesting
                                                                                 about it is that in the beginning

                                                                                 Ann practiced a different faith

                                                                                 than Thomas. She seemed to be a
                                                                                 free‐thinker, and the fact that

                                                                                 Thomas wrote about it indicates
                                                                                 that perhaps he supported that

                                                                                 quality. Thomas lived another 19
                                                                                 years and during this time, he was

                                                                                 married two more times. He died
                                                                                 in 1854 at age 70.
                      The family graveyard where Ann and Thomas are buried
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