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                                               Because of the prenuptial agreement that Angelina signed, she was put
                                               in a very difficult situation when Herndon killed himself, without leaving

                                               a will. She was forced to buy back everything she needed to survive,
                                               including the beds she and her children slept on, meat to feed them, a

                                               grindstone to bake for them, farm animals, feed, and tools to keep the
                                               farm running. Adding insult to injury, she even had to pay $101 rent on

                                               her home‐farm, to the estate.
                                               On September 3, Angelina petitioned the court for her children, that

                                               they might benefit from a share of Herndon's estate. In those times, a

                                              year's worth of support would be set aside for the widow and her chil‐
              George Washington “Lewis“ Davison
                                              dren before the estate was settled. She sued for $1000 and all proper
            relief. The children by Herndon's first wife, George Washington Lewis Davison and Antoy Elizabeth Poynter and

            her husband, J.H. Poynter maintained that when Angelina signed the prenuptial agreement that she gave up all
            rights to the widows share of the estate, and that the children, because of the mother divesting herself of the

            widow's rights, had no rights of their own, except a general distribution that would go to all heirs.

            The court decided that Angelina should not receive any part of Herndon's estate, but that her children should
            receive 5/6 of the amount that would normally have been set‐aside for the widow. The decision was unsuc‐

            cessfully appealed and the children received a small amount of cash plus a share of Herndon’s land that

            amounted to about 60 acres each. On October 18, 1880 a final settlement of the accounts of Angelina Davison,
            as guardian of her children, against (George) Washington Lewis Davison was filed in Barren County Court. On a
            compromise of the suit, Angelina received on behalf of her children, a total of $2,255, including interest. After

            subtracting real estate taxes and fees she was left with $1500 to distribute to her children, $300 to each.

            It took a full 11 years to settle Herndon's estate and the end result was a family

            divided over money, the children from the first marriage versus Angelina, as
            guardian of the children from the second marriage. With the estate finally settled, I

            like to think that Angelina had 8 years of peace before she died from a stroke, on
            October 22, 1888. But I think a more likely scenario is that she struggled for the

            rest of her life to provide for her children and to make a good home for them in
            the absence of their father. She never remarried, but she did continue to farm.


            Angelina lived to see all of her daughters married, but her two sons did not marry
            until after her death. Angelina, who had devoted her entire life to her family, was

            laid to rest in the family cemetery. Her children had her tombstone engraved with a very fitting sentiment:
            “Rest mother rest, in quiet sleep, while friends in sorrow o'er thee weep.”
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