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change what you do until you get what you want. And
again. And again. And each time, you will learn
something new that will bring you one step closer to
success.
Keep telling yourself, 'There‘s no such thing as
failure, only feedback,' until it becomes a part of your
truth.
Confident people are not afraid of rejection, either.
They know there‘s no such thing as rejection; there‘s only
selection. One of the main reasons people are
uncomfortable reaching out socially is the fear of
rejection, but it‘s a mistake to look at it this way.
Rejection isn‘t personal; it‘s part of the natural selection
process. You wouldn‘t walk into a car showroom and
buy the first car you saw. Instead, you‘d start your new
car "project" with a general idea of what you want, then
try out a few models until you found one that felt right.
Most of the ones you‘d reject would be perfectly fine
automobiles for someone else—just not you. You go
through the same process of selection when buying a
new outfit, a home, or just about anything else of
importance to your life.
Keep telling yourself this too, 'There‘s no such thing
as rejection, only selection,’ until it becomes a part of
your truth as well.
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