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Hi AASBO Folks!  Craig's Here

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        while trying so darn hard to look good.  With all  introductions. But let me ask you – how much
        that going on, we don't have any room for a big  energy does it take for you to NOT be embarrassed?
        purpose, let alone fun! PLAY! That’s what we do!!!      It takes a lot of energy that could be used for other
                                                                things.
        Just  for fun, whistle,  dance,  sing,  throw a party.
        Try something new.  Turn off the  TV – enough  So, here’s a remedy. Do something every day that
        brainwashing for now. Notice when you are trying  makes you feel a bit embarrassed and get used to it.
        to impress someone instead of being yourself. Say  One hundred years from now, will it really matter?
        to yourself, "What I am doing right now is the most  Being embarrassed is being human.
        important thing I could be doing." And most of all,
        watch  how free,  loving,  and  uninhibited  young  Third, find a purpose bigger than you. Remember
        children are. It’s profound.                            our audience member who was afraid of public
                                                                speaking? Remember all the things they were
        Second, get comfortable with being embarrassed.  worried about like, “What if I forget what to say,
        Stop trying so hard to not be embarrassed. It’s part  what if I make a mistake”? “What will people
        of the human experience.  We all do silly things,  think of me?” Then, I asked our volunteer to recall
        make mistakes, spill your soup at lunch with the  someone they really love. “If your loved one
        boss, forget our brother-in-law’s name during  was in front of the room right now and in harm's
                                                                way, would you stop at nothing to help them?”
                                                                “Absolutely” our volunteer replied! When I asked
                                                  CLEAN,
                                                 SAFE, AND      if they’d  worry  about  forgetting  what  to  say,
                         MAKING THE             DISTRACTION
                        CAFETERIA THE              FREE         worried what people thought, the response was "of
                        HAPPIEST PLACE          ENVIRONMENTS    course not!"
                         IN SCHOOL              TO ENHANCE
                                                  STUDENT
                                                 LEARNING
                                                                When we are focused on a higher purpose, outside
                                                                of ourselves, all those fears drop in a heartbeat.
                                                                The trick is to focus on your passion, on what you
                                                                love, on the mission, on the goal – whatever it
                                                                is that is beyond you or bigger than you.  When
                                                                you do that, the self-conscious part of you is not
                    Your K12 dream team for dining
                  services and facilities management            involved anymore. Freedom!

                                                                Here are three things you can do to live a more
                                                                purposeful and joyful life:
                                                                 1.  Remember to focus on your mission.
                                                CUSTOMIZED       2.  Be OK with embarrassment.
                          FUN AND                 FACILITY
                         INNOVATIVE              PROGRAMS        3.  Constantly look for ways to un-learn those
                         PROGRAMS                BASED ON           blocks to your authentic self. With this, you’ll
                                                CLIENT NEEDS
                                                                    start to reclaim your innate nature and make a
                                                                    bigger difference!

                     Cherryl Paul           Nikki Crider        All the best and lots of laughs.
           For more
          information   Chartwells Regional Sales Director  SSC Regional Sales Director
           please    e. Cherryl.Paul@compass-usa.com  e. Nikki.Crider@sscserv.com
           contact:  c. 623.293.0671        c. 480.861.6109     Craig  Zablocki  can  be  reached  at:  www.craigzablocki.com


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