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Rabbi                           W hen I first read Jane
Sacks                                          Austen’s Emma, it was
                                               the first time I had read
         THE                    a novel in which a character changes
                                over time. Emma is a young woman
 Courage                        who believes she understands other
                                people better than they do. She sets
 GrToO w                        about arranging their lives, with
                                disastrous consequences, because not
      A Message for Yom Kippur  only does she not understand others,
                                she does not understand herself.
                                However, by the end, she is a different
                                person: older, wiser and humbler.
                                Over 40 years have passed since I
                                read the book and one question still
                                fascinates me. Where did Western
                                civilization get the idea that people can
                                change? It is not obvious. The Greeks,
                                for example, believed we are what we are
                                and we cannot change. They believed
                                that character is destiny, and the
                                character itself is something we are born
                                with, although it may take great courage
                                to realize our potential.
                                This is precisely the opposite of the
                                key sentence we say on Rosh Hashanah
                                and Yom Kippur: “Teshuva, tefilla and
                                tzedaka avert the evil decree.” Look what
                                happened to the people of Nineveh: “In
                                forty days Nineveh will be destroyed.”
                                But the people repent, and the decree is
                                cancelled. There is no fate that is final.
                                The more I studied and researched, the
                                more I realized that Judaism was the
                                first system in the world to develop a
                                clear sense of human free will. As Isaac
                                Bashevis Singer put it, “We have to be
                                free; we have no choice.”
                                This is the idea at the heart of teshuva.
                                It is not just confession or remorse. It
                                is the determination to change. The
                                decision to learn from my mistakes, to
                                act differently in future, to become a
                                different kind of person.

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