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I Count Everything








                                                Sholom Feldheim



          count everything. I’ve dropped off   Miami. “Are you disappointed that they   son-in-law shares the same first name as
          my daughter Elka at Bais Yaakov   didn’t stay in Florida?” Nah, I’m proud of   my great-great-grandfather. So we know
          212 times, left her off at Jewish day   their Aliyah. “Are you going to miss your   the power of a name.
        Icamps 147 times, brought her to the   grandson?” Um, yeah. If I wanted to see   These anecdotes, like leaves, fall and scat-
        homes of Jewish friends 89 times, and to   my six-month-old grandson before he and
        Jewish/Israel events 71 times. So you can   his parents made Aliyah, I walked down a   ter around the trunk of my family tree,
                                                                                nourishing it and bringing life to my off-
        understand that I wasn’t shocked when I   twelve-foot-long hallway. Now, I have to   spring, particularly my grandchildren.
        dropped off Elka (for the 519th time) with   fly for twelve hours – that’s a heckuva long
        her husband and baby at the ElAl Termi-  haul (or hall!).               Aliyah is my grandson Ari’s movie. It’s a
        nal for a one-way flight to the Holy Land.                              grand film. I rejoice when I envision a
        Yes, they made Aliyah.              Ironically, I did not understand Judaism or   teenage Ari on a hillside wielding a hoe,
                                            have an attachment to the Promised Land
        People ask me, “Are you worried for their   growing up in a rural part of New Jersey   bantering to friends as they clear a plot of
                                                                                land for a park, his peyot flying. Or, I see
        safety?” No, I feel less secure living in   with more cows than kohanim. I only knew   him in a beit midrash discussing in Hebrew
                                            that the country had loads of stones and   the finer points of a Gemara. I have a clear
                                            sand and yet produced big, delectable   mental picture of Ari going off to his army
                                            oranges. Phylacteries? I thought they
                                                were braces a dentist used to soothe   base with his assault rifle in his hands and
                                                                                a siddur in his backpack. Later, I imagine
                                                  cavities. It wasn’t until becoming   him laughing with friends in a cafe, drink-
                                                  observant in my 20s that I learned
                                                 about Israel, tefillin, and tuition.  ing beer, and strumming guitars until the
                                                                                early morning.
                                                I understand that Jews in America   Ari is oblivious to my ‘visions’. He is more
                                               and Israel are divided not only by
                                              an ocean but also by the notion that   interested in flipping over in his crib than
                                             one might have to give up a safe thing   history or hashgacha pratit, Divine Provi-
                                              in exchange for something holy and   dence. But, someday, he will learn about
                                                                                his ancestry and appreciate the meaning
                                                miraculous.
                                                                                of his parents’ sacrifice. And, on that day,
                                                   My  daughter  and son-in-law   Ari’s life will fulfill the verse: “They shall
                                                    already knew this. They could’ve   dwell in the land… They and their children
                                                    stayed in Miami and settled on   and their children’s children shall dwell
                                                    making ends meet, juggling   there forever.” (Yechezkel 37:25)
                                                    schedules, and carpooling. But
                                                   instead, they are engaged in a   Until then, I’m proud of my ‘fam’ and feel
                                                                                everything is going as planned. And, yes,
                                                   thrilling, honorable enterprise –   I intend to visit them. You can count on it.
                                                    the Jewish Homeland.
                                                         They aren’t my first
                                                          family members to
                                                           make  Aliyah. On an
                                                            earlier trip to Israel,
                                                            Elka  discovered  a
                                                            photograph of my
                                                            great-great-grand-
                                                            father hanging in a           Sholom Feldheim
                                                            museum with a blurb   has had his anecdotes published in ESRA and
                                                              beneath the photo   Mishpacha magazine. His story “A Tale of Two
                                                               saying, ‘First Koy-  Kisses” aired on National Public Radio’s Miami
                                                                danover Colo-    affiliate, The Public Storyteller. He is currently
                                                                nist in Israel    at work on a screenplay. Mr. Feldheim lives
                                                                 [1910]’. Inter-  in Miami with his wife and family. You can
                                                                 estingly, my    contact him at legacywriter999@gmail.com.


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