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Quranic Wisdom

                 whether good or bad. Then, after a complete examination, if you
                 are satisfied that its results will be beneficial, go ahead and fulfil
                 your desire—but with great care and planning.

                    Don’t run after your desires. Even if you are following your
                 desires, check and re-check them again and again. Don’t wait for
                 the end result, but keep evaluating and re-evaluating them as you
                 go along. It is also very important to turn back if you find that
                 you have taken a wrong step. Stop your journey before reaching
                 the point of no return.


                  Right desires are helpful for the development of your
                   character. But bad desires are detrimental to your
                                         personality.


                    Then there are different kinds of desires, some of which are
                 improper. You have to distance yourself from desires of this kind.
                 Other  desires are quite proper and  you may entertain them.
                 But always keep this fact in mind that every desire must remain
                 within certain boundaries. Even good desires are useful only in
                 a limited manner.

                    Right desires are helpful for the development of your character.
                 But bad desires are detrimental to your personality. If you follow
                 your bad desires, they can ruin your future to the extent that you
                 cannot ever recover from their effects. You must therefore live a
                 life that is reason-based and not desire-based.
                    Never judge a desire for its own sake: always judge it in terms
                 of the result of its fulfilment. This result is the only criterion by
                 which it may be determined whether a desire is good or bad for
                 your life. Desire cannot be eliminated, but it can certainly be
                 controlled. Don’t become a victim of your desires. Prove to be
                 well in control of your desires.





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