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Yes, I’ll give you some examples of exact phrases you can adapt to your
situation. But I don’t want you to make the mistake of skipping to those
phrases without first learning the principles for success with my method.
This guide is really a relationship mastery guide. But it’s focused on one
very special kind of relationship power. The power to draw a man
toward you. Not by sheer effort. Not through good communication.
And not by impressing him.
Nope. This power doesn’t come from within. It doesn’t come from your
own willpower, beauty, or even your deep ability to love another human
being.
Rather, it comes from the bridge. The bridge between his needs and
your needs. I call it “bridging.” Because when you do it right, it’s a
bridge to everything you want.
Bridging: How it Works and Why It Matters
Here’s how bridging works.
This is the fast and furious version. You’ll get all the details later. But I
just want to give you the big picture first. That way, you can see where
we’re headed, and why the details matter.
Men have this thing called the hero instinct. It’s an instinctual drive that
causes him to thrive in certain kinds of relationships. He wants to be
with someone who lets him express this instinct.
But it’s not just a relationship instinct. The hero instinct impacts many
areas of a man’s life.
He’s drawn toward opportunities that satisfy his hero instinct. That’s
true whether or not those opportunities appear within the context of a
romantic relationship.