Page 10 - HIS SECRET OBSESSION PHRASES '12 WORD TEXT' JAMES BAUER PDF-BOOK

And he completely ignores you. Or worse, he looks at you like you have
two heads.

Please understand that this experience is perfectly normal. The hero
instinct has instantaneous effects. But your talent for bridging will
develop over time.

So when you feel frustrated or disappointed, plan on sticking it out.
Because it’s often your very next attempt that surprises you with
recurring waves of deep interest and attention from the guy you like.
All because of something you almost didn’t say because it didn’t seem
like a very big deal.

One week your man may seem distracted by work or other concerns.
He barely notices you. And your attempts at bridging seem to be going
nowhere.

Stick with it. Because this is a perfectly normal part of the learning
process. And consider this: The times when he does not respond can
lead to your greatest breakthroughs for understanding how the hero
instinct works.

Don’t be surprised if you start to see the pattern shortly after a
frustrating experience. You may suddenly feel as though you can turn
on or off his energy and interest like a faucet. Those experiences will
come if you persist with this method.

To make sure you achieve that result, I want you to plan ahead. I want
you to take the following phrase and store it in your memory for later
use. Every time you get discouraged, I want you to repeat this mantra
to yourself:

“I don’t want a mediocre relationship, I want an extraordinary
one. So I’m willing to do extraordinary things. Right now that
means persisting when others would give up.”