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Once in a while, a romantic relationship with a woman meets that need.
And let me tell you, those are beautiful relationships. The man pours his
heart into that kind of relationship. And as a result, both partners
flourish.

But that’s extremely unusual in this modern era. Men often get into
relationships, but they rarely feel fulfilled in them. And that’s because his
hero instinct is pulling him in another direction.

It tells him to seek adventure. Or worse, to seek out a different
relationship where he can be looked up to as a provider, as a success, as
a hero.

If his relationship with you does not satisfy the instinctual drives of his
hero instinct, there will always be something missing. A part of him will
always be trying to pull away. Trying to seek something else, or
someone else, even though he may still be in love with you.

Rachel’s Story.

The day I met with Rachel at the coffee shop, I recognized something
missing in her relationship with Mike. But even then, I underestimated
how powerful this one missing piece can be.

I asked Rachel to try something simple. I wanted her to send Mike a
signal. A special kind of signal. One that brought out a different side of
him. One that triggered a dormant part of his personality (at least as it
related to her).

Now, keep in mind, this was just the start. But the signal that triggered
Mike’s hero instinct came at just the right moment.

Rachel’s twelve words? They were simply this, “May I please ask your
advice really quick? It won’t take long.”