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collapsing. A child who has achieved the status of adulthood
               by  the  standards  set  by  the  western  social  system  has  been
               trained to conform to the parameters set by the system and to
               support it. The state will never train anybody to break free of
               its  confines.  The  elders  can,  but  generally  don’t.  They  too
               have  been  trained  by  the  state  and  are  prepared  to  hand  all
               responsibility for their young over to the authority of the state.
               When the child questions state authority they cause concern to
               the authority and when they act contrary to the rulings of the
               state they are deemed to be out of control. Perhaps if it were
               seen that the child has taken control of itself there would be
               less  concern.  The  child  has  not  been  shown  how  to  use  its
               boundaries to control itself, and this is because it has not been
               initiated  properly,  nor  educated  by  its  elders.  Its  behaviour
               becomes unacceptable and its elders demonise the unfortunate
               child for behaving as it only knows how to. If these points we
               make are considered in the light of the present generation of
               young adults your world will become a better place for them,
               and indeed for you to live in. When the young adult looks to
               their own future, a future they will have to live in responsibly,
               and should they be given the responsibility and opportunity to
               decide  for  themselves,  this  is  when  the  next  stage  of  their
               development begins. If they are not given this power then it is
               not their life that is being lived and more than likely is the life
               that  others  want  the  youngster  to  live.  The  problem  here  is
               that these ‘others’ will take no responsibility for the outcome
               unless  it  is  deemed  successful  in  their  eyes,  a  success
               measured by the degree to which the outcomes fit the dreams
               of ‘others’. This might not suit you to hear this, but then we
               are only giving this as an hypothesis for your consideration.
               Push a boat free of the shore and see where the wind and tide
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