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but it did not turn out to be the burning issue. My
in-laws were aware about my responsibilities.
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I got married on 13 June 1986 in the Gardar Vitt hal
Temple. All my family members and friends happily
participated in my marriage. Umeshgiri Maharaj, my ex
boss Prakash Hawaldar, Rahul Hawaldar were present
in my marriage ceremony.
My wife Ranjanakumari entered my small house
and we started our life journey together.
Honor of a woman has an ultimate importance in
our Indian culture. A woman should get married as
per her wish. ‘Tulsi Vivah’ exactly describes the Indian
tradition. Progress of the house is decided on the
respect that a woman of the house gets. She is a home
maker. Marriage is a holy bond. It completes each other.
Radha-Krishna is an ultimate example of love.

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My sister’s marriage got fixed on the 3 day of my
marriage. She has a son. I am going to help her in building
her house. And as promise I paid Rs. 1,30,000/- to sister.
My wife is a dear daughter–in-law of the house.
Once, when me and my wife was roaming around the
city on my friend’s bike. My wife asked in a soft voice,
“ How should I behave with you to keep you happy?”
“I don’t ask for the specific behavior when we are

together. I can tackle any behavior of yours. But, my

parents are very keen about the specific behavior of
their daughter-in-law. You should always take care of
them. Make sure they won’t have complaints about
you. I can’t tolerate their complaints. The day they will
complain about you will be the last day of my life.” And
I can proudly tell you that she took a really good care of
my parents till the last day of their life. My father passed
away at the age of 85 on 4/12/2002. And my mother left
this world at the age of 98 on 4/7/2018. Our villagers still
praise my wife for her good conduct.
Days after marriage were the golden days. I sold the

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