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Men who have zero neediness, on the other hand, get exactly (and often

more than) what they want. Women find them irresistible.

But why?

Why are women instinctively (yes, instinctively ) attracted to guys who
have zero neediness? Why are they instinctively attracted to men who have
options? Who feel like they don’t need to prove anything?

We’ll explore the evolutionary reasons for this in the next chapter, but

before we move on, let’s examine neediness on a deeper level…

IT’S ALL ABOUT THE SUB-

COMMUNICATION

Mindset is everything. It’s not so much about the needy behavior itself,

but about where it is that the behavior comes from. It’s about what your behavior
implies about you as a man—the sub-communication.

For example, buying a woman you barely know a drink at a bar or

bragging to her about your job is obviously coming from a place of perceived
inadequacy. You feel you’re not good enough for her on your own, or you feel
inferior to her or intimidated by her beauty, and so you attempt to compensate.

Meanwhile, the guy who’s playfully teasing a woman about something or
another is, through his actions, implying the exact opposite. He has zero

neediness. In fact, he might be “testing” her to see if she’s good enough for him .
He’s the catch, and she’s just another chick chasing after him (at least this is his

mindset).

Needless to say, the second guy is going to be seen as infinitely more
attractive to women than the first guy because his behavior implies that he is
higher status.

So let’s take a look at the different levels of neediness (or lack thereof)…