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LEVEL 1: NEEDY

This guy is a needy man. He buys women he doesn’t know drinks in order
to “buy time” to talk to them. When he does get the chance to talk to them, he
brags about his job, his car, his apartment, and so on.

If he’s lucky enough to get a date with a girl, he texts her every day. And

not just any texts, but big, long, essay-like texts. He also sends “good morning”
and “good night” texts.

On the date, he asks her where she wants to go. He wants to make her

happy. He is too afraid to take charge and lead for fear that she might not like
whatever it is he chooses/does.

The point is this: It’s not the guy's behavior itself that is needy. Rather, it
is what the behavior is communicating about him.

His behavior is communicating that he’s too emotionally invested in her.

That he’s not a man with options. That he probably even feels inadequate,
unconsciously (or perhaps even consciously) feeling that he’s not good enough
for her.

He feels he needs to compensate, whether that be by buying her a drink

despite not knowing her, driving her (or, God help him, her friends ) around,
taking her on fancy dates, showing off his high-paid job, and so on.

Although all of these behaviors may not be traditionally classified as
“needy”, they nonetheless come from a place of neediness and perceived

inadequacy—and that’s highly unattractive.

LEVEL 2: SOMEWHAT NEEDY

This guy isn’t as needy as the Level 1 guy, but he’s still somewhat needy.

If a woman prods and pokes in just the right places, he can get defensive and
insecure.

“You seem like a player,” she says.