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better understanding of this dreadful little creature known as neediness, because
               if you’re reading this book, you are almost certainly needy to at least a certain
               extent—no matter how small—and it repulses women.

                          KEY IDEAS


                         1.  Neediness is the single most unattractive trait. You can look like
                              Brad Pitt, but if she gets so much as a whiff of neediness, her

                              attraction will die.
                         2.  It’s all about what your behavior sub-communicates .  Neediness
                              isn’t always obvious. Us guys typically associate neediness with

                              crazy behaviors, such as secretly checking her phone. But in reality,
                              doing unnecessary favors, getting too invested too early, or feeling
                              like you need to prove yourself are all just as indicative of

                              neediness.
                         3.  The less f*cks you give, the more f*cks you get. Women are
                              biologically hardwired to be instinctively attracted to mentally

                              strong, confident, masculine, dominant men (see why in the next
                              chapter). These kinds of guys aren’t needy and have nothing to
                              prove. And so when your behavior sub-communicates neediness—

                              giving too much of a f*ck—her legs tighten and her attraction
                              wanes.

                       If you want to unlock her legs, eliminate all neediness. Not just the crazy
               stuff—I’m confident you’re not like that. It’s the small things. The subtle sub-

               communications. Turn the tables by shifting your mindset from “I hope she likes
               me” to “Let’s find out if I like her.”

                       Try impress her and she’ll be less interested.

                       Be less invested and she’ll try to impress you .

                       Find out why in the next chapter…
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