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better understanding of this dreadful little creature known as neediness, because
if you’re reading this book, you are almost certainly needy to at least a certain
extent—no matter how small—and it repulses women.
KEY IDEAS
1. Neediness is the single most unattractive trait. You can look like
Brad Pitt, but if she gets so much as a whiff of neediness, her
attraction will die.
2. It’s all about what your behavior sub-communicates . Neediness
isn’t always obvious. Us guys typically associate neediness with
crazy behaviors, such as secretly checking her phone. But in reality,
doing unnecessary favors, getting too invested too early, or feeling
like you need to prove yourself are all just as indicative of
neediness.
3. The less f*cks you give, the more f*cks you get. Women are
biologically hardwired to be instinctively attracted to mentally
strong, confident, masculine, dominant men (see why in the next
chapter). These kinds of guys aren’t needy and have nothing to
prove. And so when your behavior sub-communicates neediness—
giving too much of a f*ck—her legs tighten and her attraction
wanes.
If you want to unlock her legs, eliminate all neediness. Not just the crazy
stuff—I’m confident you’re not like that. It’s the small things. The subtle sub-
communications. Turn the tables by shifting your mindset from “I hope she likes
me” to “Let’s find out if I like her.”
Try impress her and she’ll be less interested.
Be less invested and she’ll try to impress you .
Find out why in the next chapter…