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9. After the closing prayer, shake hands with the immediate family and then step aside.

These tips are offered for your assistance. Some of the above will vary because of culture or tradition, country,
or church practice. But for the most part, they will be appropriate in nearly every situation. Jane Caudyle once
wrote; “Never does one feel so utterly helpless as trying to speak comfort for great bereavement.” Yet this is our
call and duty as a shepherd. It is also our right and privilege. Only we as ministers of the gospel can be
messengers of hope in the midst of grief as we remind our listeners; “It has now been revealed through the
appearing of our Savior, Jesus Christ, who has destroyed death and has brought life and immortality to light
through the gospel”
(2 Timothy 1:10).

10.4 Let’s Practice…

1-8. Name at least 8 of the 12 topics that should be included in a pre-marital counseling program:

9. What caution should be taken about hiring dancers at weddings?

10. What is the main difference between a Christian funeral and a standard non-Christian funeral in Africa?

11-13. List three things you should do as a pastor when visiting the home in preparation for a funeral:

10.5 Let’s Personalize this Lesson…

Activity: Let’s pretend a member of a family in your church just died. Trace below the steps you
would take from beginning to final burial.

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