Page 46 - Your Leader Within Introduction

Then, the speaker went through the same process with the women. The exercise brought to light how little we understand about ourselves and those we want to connect with.
The point is that our ego-driven views of each other are inaccurate. And because we are a mixture of pretense and insecurity, we do not see ourselves as we are, and we don’t see others as they are.
The intuitive mind, however, tends to view ourselves and others through a more realistic and fresh lens.
So, why have I gone off about emotions when thinking about happiness or joy?
Simply put, because you cannot be happy unless you feel and express your emotional side.
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