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■   See adversity as temporary.  Consider losing a job, for example, as
                                                   a step along the way to a better one.
                                                  ■   See the limited scope of your problems.  One issue does not make
                                                   your entire life a disaster.
                                                  ■   Avoid the personal.  If you look for explanation in the details of a situ-
                                                   ation instead of seeing yourself as incompetent, you can keep your self-
                                                   esteem and creative energy alive.

                                                  With successful intelligence, a growth mindset, and learned opti-
                                              mism, you will always have a new direction in which to grow. Your
                                              willingness to take calculated, productive risks will allow you to put
                                              these valuable tools to work and reward you with the achievement of
                                              your most valued goals. Risk being true to yourself, a respectful friend
                                              and family member, a focused student who believes in the power of
                                              learning, a productive employee, and a contributing member of society
                                              to earn the ultimate reward of a meaningful life—a life that can change
                                              the world.









         revisit RISK AND REWARD




         What happened to Stephen?  Stephen  chose  the  risk  of   But I persevered, because I
         entering the job market. After graduation, he accepted a   believed in myself and I had
         job  at  Chubb  as  an  insurance  underwriter,  where  he   those who believed in me
         found the work to be fulfilling, challenging, and even fun.   and  really  pushed  me,”
         Setting law school aside, Stephen later transitioned into   Stephen  says.  Identify  a
         a marketing role. Twenty-two years later, he’s now vice   challenge you have faced
         president and branch manager of the Chubb Cleveland   in your life. Then describe what risks
         office, which generates more than $115 million in annual   you took to emerge from that trying time, including
         revenue.  “Keep  options  open.  You  don’t  know  where   who helped you move ahead and the rewards that have
         those options are going to take you,” Stephen says. Work   come from that challenge. As Stephen emphasizes, “Our
         ethic and passion have brought him success in a career   life experiences, regardless of how hard they are, are
         path he never envisioned. “Don’t let the world define   going to make us better.”
         who you are,” he says. “You show the world what you   What risk may bring reward beyond your world?  Like
         are capable of.”                                    Stephen’s work helping Korean Americans think about
             Stephen  hosts  career-building  events  for  Korean   career paths, you can get involved in programs that use
         American high school students and serves on the board   the knowledge you have built from personal experience.
         of Achievement Centers for Children, an organization   Think about the challenge you identified in the previous
         that serves children with disabilities and their families.   section. Then research, online or in person, opportuni-
         In 2012, he received an Outstanding 50 Asian-Ameri-  ties at your school or in your community for you to use
         cans in Business Award. Stephen and his wife have a   the rewards that challenge brought you. For example, if
         teenage son. In his spare time, Stephen enjoys Formula   you have been through a health crisis, find ways to help
         One  racing,  golf,  and  reading,  especially  biographies   others  going  through  it.  If  you  have  had  a  particular
         and history.
                                                             experience with your family, look to support others hav-
         What  does  this  mean  for  you?  Stephen’s  success  is  a     ing similar experiences.
         lesson in perseverance. “There were a lot of obstacles.



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