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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                                Hilchot Esurei Rechilut                                                              תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
                                      Kelal Dalet                                                                      'ו ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


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                                                                                                    .'ה ףיִעס 'ז ללכִבּ ןמּקַלוּ ד"י ףיִעס 'ח ללכִבּ 'א קלחבּ
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                            Hilchot Esurei Rechilut
                                                                                                   יִפל חיִסֵמִּמ וּלִּפא אוּה )זי( תוּליִכרְ תלבּקַ רוּסִּא ןידּ .ח
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                      Kelal    Dalet              (RK4 - 4 chapter)
                                                                                                   ררֵוֹעל הזבּ ןוִּכּ אלֹ רפּסְמהֶשׁ האוֹר אוּהֶשׁ וּניהדּ ,וֹמּתּ
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                The law applying to gossip in the framework of the
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                “victim”  already  knowing  about  the  gossip  even                               לכו .ויִפִּמ הז רבדּ אצי הרֶקְִמבֶּשׁ קרַ ,וֹרבח לע םינדְמ
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                without the speaker having repeated it to him, and                                 'ט ףיִעסבּ 'ז ללכִבּ 'א קלחבּ ליֵעל ראֹבְמ ויטרְָפּ רֶתי
                how  to  correct  the  sin  of  Rechilut.    There  are  3                               .תוּליִכרְ ןינִעל ןידּה אוּהו ,ערָה ןוֹשׁל ןינִעל
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                                halachot in this Kelal.
             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 169
                                                                                                   תמאֶשׁ םדי לע הארְנֶּשׁ ,םירִכּנּה םירִבדּ וילע הארָ םִאו .ט
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             RK4/ .    Gossip  is  forbidden  even  if  the  speaker  is  repeating                וילע רבּדּ וֹא ,וֹל הָשׂע אוּהֶשׁ ,וילע וֹל וּרְפִּסֶּשּׁ המ ,אוּה
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             something that is not new, that the victim already knew that Plony
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             said  or  did  something  that  affected  him  but  he  (the  victim)  did            ןיּע ,אלֹ וֹא וילע הז תמחֵמ ןיִמאהל רָתּמ םִא ,ךְכו ךְכּ
             not think much of it at the time, that Plony wronged him, and this                    יִכּ ,ד"י ףיִעס דע 'י ףיִעסִּמ 'ז ללכִבּ 'א קלחבּ ליֵעל
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      Mekor Hachayim  and asks – “What was the outcome of your court case?”  Reuven                הזל ךְירִצדּ ,םָשִּׁמ אצוֹיּה רוּצּקִבּ בֹתּכא ארֵוֹקּה לע לקֵהל
             speaker \ this gossip (1) reminds him again about what had happened.
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             (For  example,  Reuven  lost  a  court  case  and  Shimon  meets  him
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                                                                                                   ידֵכּ ךְא .הזבּ םיִכיַּשֶּׁשׁ םיִטרְָפּה לכּ 'ה תרַזעבּ וּנרְאבּ םָשׁ
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             answers: “The court found me liable for such-and-such.”  Shimon
             then tells him: “You know, the court did not judge you fairly!”).
                                                                                                                     :םיִטרְָפּ הָשִּׁמחה וּלּא
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             (This example and other comparable examples).  Nevertheless it
             is called gossip (2) since in prodding the conversation the speaker
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             is again reminding the victim to think about an entirely unpleasant
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             experience and provokes this victim to hate his court opponent who
             won the case.
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                                                                                                   וּלִּפא ?תמא אוּהֶשׁ םירִכּנ םירִבדּ הזבּ ךְיַּשּׁ המ ,)ןכ אלֹ םִאדּ(
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                                                                                                   ,ערַל הז םוּשִּׁמ ןוֹדּנּה לע בלּבּ טיִלחהל ןיא ,תמא אוּה םִא
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 173                                                        יִכה ואל יִאדּ ,תוּכזּה דצל וֹטְפָשׁל המּבּ וֹבּ היהי אלֹ ,תמא
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             RK4/2.  If Reuven degraded Shimon in the presence of two people                                      .תוֹמוֹקְמ המּכבּ ליֵעלדִכוּ
             and  one  of  those  two  people  then  violated  the  esur  of  Rechilut
             and  conveyed  Reuven’s  comments  to  Shimon,  still  the  second

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